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  1. Pal Handy

    Help with situation at home between us and parents.

    Sounds like your mother and father have given you a house so they probable feel like you need to give them all your money to help them get out of their bad money handling situations. You are on the hook because they have given or will give you a gift that you could never have afforded on your...
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    Back To Square One

    Must be a buyers market...
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    Not Sure What to Do

    Yep... Pretty much all my old friends are gone and the one remaining one is being strained severely by his new wife that has decided to create so sort of case against me every time I am around her. So what have I been doing? I have been meeting total strangers and talking with them whenever I...
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    Matthew 22:30 = Unfair To Perpetual Singles?

    So let me get this straight.... You think sex is so important that you would miss out if it wasn't an activity in the New Kingdom? Your head is in the wrong place. We won't need sexual pleasures in heaven because we will find our fulfillment in the presence of God where there is joy, love and...
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    Question about Jesus Christ HELP!

    If you believe that Jesus Christ is the son of God and that what He said and taught is true and you know that you are a sinner who can never make it into heaven on your own goodness, then what is required of you is that you turn away from sin, admit that you are lost without Christ and BELIEVE...
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    Divorce and a life time of Grief

    Wow, you have a lot on your plate. This life, often turns in seemingly unfair and mysterious ways that we cannot always see and so we become fustrated, angry and wounded. Christ was wounded, He was beaten, broken and bruise for me and you! Remember this, Christ was God's best sent to the...
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    I'm Not Saved, Am I...?

    You doubt because you are listening to your own fears and doubts instead of believing what God says. If someone you should trust tells you something like tomorrow I will come over and pick you up for lunch, do you doubt they will do what they say? Would you call them every five minute asking...
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    Help interpreting a dream?

    The important thing here is not your dream but your relationship with Jesus Christ. How deep is your relationship? Do believe on Jesus Christ for your forgiveness and salvation from judgment and eternal separation from God? Your dream has fear and condemnation in it and so it reveals your...
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    What does it mean to be saved?

    What does it mean to be saved? Lets see who can be saved.... Luke 5:32 I have not come to call the righteous, but sinners to repentance.” So what does this mean? It means that if you think you are righteous in yourself and your actions, Jesus's sacrifice for your sins is useless because you...
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    How to respond...

    If your wife is a believer, why does she disobey God's word? Believing that Jesus Christ was a person who went about teaching and preaching is not the same as believing that Jesus Christ was God in the flesh and our only means of salvation from our sins. Sounds like to me your wife believes...
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    Why Does God Seem So Silent?!

    If our prayers and thoughts toward God are not correct, why would God respond? If we are to please God we MUST BELIEVE that He exists and that He rewards those who pursue after Him in FAITH as we believe that He is our GOOD and loving heavenly Father. What do you pray? Are you saying or...
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    Opinions wanted

    You both are living in a dysfunctional marriage and need help. You both need counseling and you both need to turn your lives over to Christ and invite Him into your marriage. Stop trying to do this on your own and get help.
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    Today I feel like giving up

    What trouble? You still have a job and a better attitude so why are you angry when you are doing what is right? What, do you wish you where a bad employee all along so that you would deserve being reprimanded but now that you are doing a good job you get mad that your good didn't save you...
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    Prayer Request

    prayers sent...
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    advice needed, not comfortable with the job my church gave me

    If you are looking for the perfect church you will never find it. People are imperfect and so the church will always reflect this fallen nature of man no matter how hard they try to get it right. This imperfection of man is exactly why God tells us that we can never be good enough in our...
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    facebook question clarify pls

    Just because their name is there on the list doesn't mean they use chat. So call the person on the phone if you want to talk...
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    What does it mean to hear from God, and how can I?

    God speaks to you ever day. When He whispers in your ear the right way to go, it is His spirit that is guiding you. When you read the Bible and a verse jumps out at you and you know that it is wisdom for the situation you are in, this is the voice of the Spirit of God speaking His wisdom to...
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    Inconvenient

    Sorry for your loss. At this point, what does it matter? At least family was able to get together and share her life.....
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    My Husband's Friend Doesn't Acknowledge Me

    Dear, I am the one no one says hello to. I guess you have to keep being friendly even in the face of rudeness and ignorance. Don't let this one person get to you. Pray for him and put it out of your mind and don't try to understand something that makes no sense to begin with. I think that...
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    My Husband's Friend Doesn't Acknowledge Me

    So why do you have a problem with him not saying hello?