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Yah, I am trying. She's already started her own separate checking account. I know that she was a devoted Christ follower at one point but now that seems as if it is just a thing of the past. She has so much to lose by this even further than just me that the rush into this makes no sense. She...

Hi suzy, Thanks for replying. I have poured my soul out to her at this point. Admitting that I have had problems connecting with her by no fault of her own and that I wanted to get some help in doing so. She's just so closed off to anything even resembling getting help. She wants out and...

Had a thought today. When we were kids we used to make out for hours. As we got older that faded to no kissing at all. I can count the amount of times we have kissed since being married on 2 hands. So funny how I didn't see it as a problem. I thought we were both just worn out from it. We...

Ouch, harsh but I guess very true. You guys seem to know exactly what I'm going through which I'm sorry to hear. You are right that she sent out slight hints to me but never really spoke out saying we need help. So strange how u guys seem to know all of this stuff. She is acting very...

I'm a police officer. I have to be careful at what I do as far as this other guy. I've looked into cell phone records and there is nothing very off about it. I'm sure most of it is via email from her work. I believe that she is gaining her strength from this other relationship and getting...

Thank you for the response. Sounds like you went through something very very similar to me. She mentioned talking to some other guy but it wasn't physical because that would "hurt me". I am definitely struggling with the wallowing thing. Our marriage has been so tough thus far as we have had...

Ok, if someone would kindly tell me how to do that I will move it.

Hello, I am new here and just wanted to reach out to some other Christians who may know a bit about the pain I am going through. My wife and I have been together for 10 years. Married for 4. We met at a Christian Camp and our relationship was founded on God. We had everything in common and...