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I too had the ugly duckling syndrom. What I did was I tried different looks as far as clothes and things. I took pic of myself and I looked at them. This way I learned what things were flattering to my body shape and my personality type. Sallow I know but I also took into consideration what...

unfortunately the church does not have elders, or deacons. He is the end all there. And everybody there knows what's going on, and they still choose to keep him as pastor. Besides if he leaves who will pay forevery thing there??? Sad I know. The only thing I can do is look for a new church home.

LST1154, Thank you for being so transparent and open with me. I love it when we just tell it like it is. I can completely see all of these things happening with him. I will continue to pray for change.

WOW!!! I'm so glad you asked this... Years ago when I first found out about this I stopped going to church for about a year. This time around I refused to go the same route, and I wanted to really be able to see God as God and as my father. So I purchased a book/bible study called In my...

So guys I need some help again.... In my last post I asked if it was wrong for me to write a letter to my father (the pastor) to let him know I knew about him cheating on my mom and how it made me feel. Well just to let you guys know I did write the letter. He wrote back and tried to lie but I...

WOW!!!!! As I sit here and I read ALL the words of love and encouragement peace has been brought to my soul, and tears of happiness. I'm shocked still that complete strangers, took time out to build me up when I felt so low. Never once bashing my earthly father. I feel so greatful that you have...

being a pastor is not his source of income, he is a buisness man. Again I and my family a fully aware that he is a lying cheat. So there is no doubt about it. And the enitre church knows cause he flounces around town and people have caugth him out with her. He just gives them $$ and they are...

thank you... you quote "I have to learn that the aim in life is God's, not mine.....and all He asks of me is that I trust Him and never say--Lord, this gives me such heartache." really touched my heart. I told God that this morning. I told him I was angry and hurt that he allowed this to happen...

Ps. Please pray that the letter opens his eyes to all the hurt and pain he has cause our family

Thank you all for your words that will give me the strenght to go on and give him my letter. I know he will just blame everything on my mom and try to say their relationship has been over. I want so bad to say well if that is the case then why not divorce her and be with who you want and stop...

ther are pleanty of other things that have happened and that I have seen with my own eyes, so I know what is going on. I just chose not to add that info in. I just wanted to make sure I wasn't wrong for letting him know, I know what is going on, I'm not stupid, and that I'm crushed by it.

So today I forced to accept the fact my father the pastor is a cheater! I found out that he is and has been cheating on my mother with a women from the congragation, and I'm totaly heartbroken. He tried to leave me a vm today and I heard her voice in the background, and he was not at church, he...

my father says he didn't care.. But he was very mean towards me until I gave in and went back. But due to yesterday's events I won't return. He can be as mean as he wants, I just don't even care anymore

So today I found out my father the pastor is a cheater! I found out that he is and has been cheating on my mother with a women from the congragation, and I'm totaly heartbroken. :cry: He tried to leave me a vm today and I heard her voice in the background, and he was not at church, he is in a...

Somethings you will never forget. As time goes on they might not hurt as bad but the memory will always be there. If you really want to be with this girl you will need to be sensitive to how your actions might bring up those painful memories for her. You will need to encourage her to actually...

Well to answer your question does God want me to be married, for me he does. I do not have the gift of celibacy, so yes I believe he wants me to be married.

Trust me I have forwarded this to my aging single friends!!! LOL

Ha! Valuecard. What an appropriate name for yourself. I truly found a lot of value in your post on youtube. As I get older I find myself being more concerned with finding the right one, improving myself for my future spouse, and the list goes on. But until now never did I realize that it had...

Thank you God for your protection against my stupidity!!!!!!!!!!!!

As others have pointed out the things you are stating are things that both men and women do. Right now it appears that your comments are one sided due to your limited experiences. Have you considered the thousands of "bratty" men that lie to their employers and stop working so they don't have to...