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    FINDING THE RIGHT PARTNER ONLINE

    I've heard that about 60 percent of people now find their dates online. I have a GF now that I meet on line. I think the trick is finding which app that works best for you.
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    happily single

    I've meet people who say they don't want to die alone. Last year I spent the 4th with my GF and then we both went home. She didn't reply to my messages the next day and so the 2nd day I started asking if other's had talked with her. Yes, she died alone at home. Sad for me. But I've never felt I...
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    Is it me?

    Ya, does sound like a couple of red flags. Definately have a very long dating and then engagement to really know him.
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    I was excommunicated for getting a divorce

    Zeph, I think you handles your situation very wisely. Sorry your church is more legalistic than loving. I also believe you are much closer to the way God thinks about our life than others at your church. I pray God finds you the mate you desire and need.
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    "It is not good for man to be alone..."

    It restate what I hear you guys saying in my own words. God loves variety ... so many different animal types, so many different plant types, so many different types of landscapes, so many different personalities, so many different church denominations, yet there is suppose to just be married or...
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    SINGLES, WE ARE CREATED FOR GOD'S GLORY!

    I avoided any romance at work, but I've never particularly applied that to church. I guess as I've got older and know myself, I don't fit the narrative of who a man should be and therefore who women in the church would be looking for. However, I have often run into Christian women who like who...
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    Struggling to understand if masturbation is okay.

    Ahhh, yes I didn't understand that that was your point. I find that I am of the same mind as other believers from many Christian traditions in that I love them and get along with them even if we have disagreements. How are you doing with being of one mind with all the other Christian traditions...
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    Struggling to understand if masturbation is okay.

    Weel, if you feel it's sin to touch then you shouldn't. I'd agree with you. But as Baptists used to say where the Bible is silent we should be silent also. So I personally don't create a sin that God doesn't define in the Bible. As I believe it would be a sin for me to add to God's word...
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    Struggling to understand if masturbation is okay.

    Having read and studied the Bible for decades now, I've not found anywhere that it ways masturbation is a sin. I've meet a lot of people who think it is and a lot who think it isn't. Paul said if you believe it's a sin then to you it is a sin.
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    what are you saving for?

    I've saved for a lifetime, now I'm retired and am spending that money saved
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    Christian Nudists

    Then what do you think of Isaiah prophesying to Israel in Jerusalem naked for 3 years?
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    Is being old/older (in age) 50, 60, 70…?

    I watched my grandfather and then my father get old, like into their mid 90s. So I knew what was coming my way. Can't say it's bothered me a lot. But thankfully there are good genes in my family and so I've been healthy into my 70s. I'm very active, have a lot of friends and go on a lot of...
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    Physical affection in dating

    I love what levnisbar is saying. I'd make it a little more clear. Lust in Mat.5:28 should be translated covid ask is quite often done other times it used. Because Jesus is talking about the 10 commandments and coveting another man's wife. Young people who are in love and dating each other...
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    Does anyone here talk about their dating life?

    Well, I couldn't find in the Bible where it's a sin to have sex without marriage. But it's against the rules to talk about that stuff.
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    Does anyone here talk about their dating life?

    Well, there are a lot of things one can do on a date that cost nothing. I love a walk in the park with a good conversation about what has been going on in ones life since the last time we meet.
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    Does anyone here talk about their dating life?

    I do a lot of dating, limited number of ladies. In two days I'm off to Canada to she one of them. Her mom has passed and so it will be an interment. But generally, too much of my dating life would break the rules of this site, so I don't post much about it.
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    Are you going to get the Covid-19 vaccine?

    I've had two covid vaccines and one booster. Not problem. I'll be getting the new booster when it comes out with the omicron variant included in it.
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    Getting to Know Each Other (2)

    ya, 60s and 70s music was the best. I was at a wedding last weekend, half the songs I'd never heard of before. But the wedding party was singing ever word. They were kinda rap in nature. Sorry doesn't do it for me. But I did get some good dancing in.
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    SINGLES, WE ARE CREATED FOR GOD'S GLORY!

    Well, I'm by no means lonely, too many friends and GFs for that!
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    Boundaries in dating

    Gee, fornication hasn't been in Bibles for a few decades now.