Hello everyone,
I haven't been in here for a while - but when I need prayer I know what group to turn to.
For those who do not know me - my wife and I have been pastoring for 20 years now and we have 2 beautiful teenage daughters (17 & 13). We have been raising them by faith with strong Biblical principles since the day they were both born. We homeschooled our oldest until she was halfway through 10th grade. At that time she began to strongly express desires to attend public high school to combat loneliness.
We set guidelines.
We thought we had taught her well and that she had a firm Biblical foundation.
Last week ( as we near the conclusion of her Junior year) - she has expressed an attraction to an unsaved boy in her grade and wants to date him. She confessed to us that she had already given away her first kiss to him and that they have been talking marriage.
After our initial outburst - we have spent the last week in turmoil as we attempted to turn her heart away from this young man. She refuses to listen to anything we have to say - and is insistent that God doesn't care about her and that this boy does.
My wife and I are broken and in need of prayer support. Tonight we have caved in and allowed her to date this boy (while vocalizing our strong displeasure and creating a new set of rules). She is 17 and we cannot lock her up in an ivory tower. All we now know to do is to trust God - keep our eye on her as best we can - and pray.
Please pray for us as we feel like we are losing our minds.
PK
I haven't been in here for a while - but when I need prayer I know what group to turn to.
For those who do not know me - my wife and I have been pastoring for 20 years now and we have 2 beautiful teenage daughters (17 & 13). We have been raising them by faith with strong Biblical principles since the day they were both born. We homeschooled our oldest until she was halfway through 10th grade. At that time she began to strongly express desires to attend public high school to combat loneliness.
We set guidelines.
We thought we had taught her well and that she had a firm Biblical foundation.
Last week ( as we near the conclusion of her Junior year) - she has expressed an attraction to an unsaved boy in her grade and wants to date him. She confessed to us that she had already given away her first kiss to him and that they have been talking marriage.
After our initial outburst - we have spent the last week in turmoil as we attempted to turn her heart away from this young man. She refuses to listen to anything we have to say - and is insistent that God doesn't care about her and that this boy does.
My wife and I are broken and in need of prayer support. Tonight we have caved in and allowed her to date this boy (while vocalizing our strong displeasure and creating a new set of rules). She is 17 and we cannot lock her up in an ivory tower. All we now know to do is to trust God - keep our eye on her as best we can - and pray.
Please pray for us as we feel like we are losing our minds.
PK