Recently I was in an argument with my two best friends (who happen to be twins). I feel like the relationship has become toxic even though they are encouraging me to grow closer to God and be a better Christian. I used to have so much fun with them and now I feel like everytime I'm around them their either critiquing some part of my social or Christian life. And it's past the point of accountability. It's gotten to where it's just plain hurtful when they say these things. As far as them trying to keep me accountable, it's sin that I've been praying about and working on turning away from, and I have quite a bit! I'm not struggling with it everyday or even every week anymore, but they tend to bring it up when it's not necessary and in a hurtful way. I've brought this up to them but they just get super defensive and keep telling me what's wrong with me. I recently snapped and gave into the temptation and said some very hurtful things back that I shouldn't have. I've tried to apologize, but they won't look at me or speak to me when we're together. I'm trying to mend the relationship, but I'm not sure if I can if they can't see how much they've hurt me too. I've prayed about this for a long time and finally told them how much they've been upsetting me recently, but since I had said something hurtful to them, apparently they feel like I'm the only one that's wrong here. I'd like some help from an outside point of view, so any advice anyone can give is appreciated (and please don't try to sugarcoat it
. Also is anyone in the same or similar situation that I can talk to?
. Also is anyone in the same or similar situation that I can talk to?
