I feel like I am being sinful when I avoid or ignore their calls or texts, but I feel I have no other option, because if I respond they will be rude to me or put me down if I say something they don't want to hear, like I just don't feel like coming over anymore.
For example, I haven't been feeling well and when they call or text me asking me to hang out I reply that I am not feeling well and say "thanks for the offer but I am not feeling good today" and then I usually get a reply that makes me feel like poop so I just ignore them mostly now. But is that how Jesus would handle it? I feel like I am not making a good impression on them because I claim to be a Christian, well how Christian is it to ignore people' calls? Isn't that rude? It's harder because these aren't just friends I am talking about, but family of mine. So it adds to the tension because they think I hate them because I am not around much anymore. I can't help it that I got sick.
I mean, I feel bad in some sense as I "do" like their company some of the time but I have decided to no longer put up with that kind of interaction. 75% of the time I am with them, I feel like I always do or say something that they have to tear me down about or nitpick me about. I will not tolerate that anymore. I feel like everything I do annoys them or displeases them.. I can never be good enough for them to be truly happy with me all the time. I refuse to put myself thru those emotions anymore. I am done. I don't intend to cut them out of my life, but I just need them to understand I am not well right now and need to work on getting healthy.
How should a Christian handle this, as Godly as possible?
For example, I haven't been feeling well and when they call or text me asking me to hang out I reply that I am not feeling well and say "thanks for the offer but I am not feeling good today" and then I usually get a reply that makes me feel like poop so I just ignore them mostly now. But is that how Jesus would handle it? I feel like I am not making a good impression on them because I claim to be a Christian, well how Christian is it to ignore people' calls? Isn't that rude? It's harder because these aren't just friends I am talking about, but family of mine. So it adds to the tension because they think I hate them because I am not around much anymore. I can't help it that I got sick.
I mean, I feel bad in some sense as I "do" like their company some of the time but I have decided to no longer put up with that kind of interaction. 75% of the time I am with them, I feel like I always do or say something that they have to tear me down about or nitpick me about. I will not tolerate that anymore. I feel like everything I do annoys them or displeases them.. I can never be good enough for them to be truly happy with me all the time. I refuse to put myself thru those emotions anymore. I am done. I don't intend to cut them out of my life, but I just need them to understand I am not well right now and need to work on getting healthy.
How should a Christian handle this, as Godly as possible?