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The future sin would be a future divorce, not a marriage.
Are we both discussing the OP's situation?
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The future sin would be a future divorce, not a marriage.
I could not disagree more that repenting for a past sin gives one the freedom to commit a future sin. In my opinion your statement is not at all Scriptural.
Do you feel the same about other sins that people have? Do you feel the same way about the sins that you commit? That your future should be judged by every sin you ever committed in the past?...or even in the past since you became a Christian?
Are you forever tainted if you ever had a lustful thought?
Matt 5:28 But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart.
Are you no longer marriage material for any dedicated Christian woman since you have committed an act of adultery?
Are we both discussing the OP's situation?
Why not spend some time re-reading your post.
Do you feel the same about other sins that people have? Do you feel the same way about the sins that you commit? That your future should be judged by every sin you ever committed in the past?...or even in the past since you became a Christian?
Are you forever tainted if you ever had a lustful thought?
Matt 5:28 But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart.
Are you no longer marriage material for any dedicated Christian woman since you have committed an act of adultery?
Marrying her would be adultery because they are still married in God's eyes so this would be forbidden.
Yes, and yes. Marriage, unlike other situations in which we can sin, is a covenant between a man, a woman, and God. This is why we are not allowed to abandon it except because of the severe violation of our vows.
And lustful thoughts do not usually lead to divorce. It is the divorce which prevents the adulterer/adulteress from remarriage. While they can receive forgiveness, forgiveness is not a green light to go out and sin again. The Bible specifically forbids fornication with, or marriage to, and adulterer/adulteress. That is in and of itself a specific sin, which is separate from the sin which caused the divorce.
I have spent a long time thinking about this. I have been praying about this because I once believed it. However, saying that a person is forever burdened by the weight of a sin after repentance does not match the character of Jesus. Are there other sins that are equally "permanent"?
I have spent a long time thinking about this. I have been praying about this because I once believed it. However, saying that a person is forever burdened by the weight of a sin after repentance does not match the character of Jesus. Are there other sins that are equally "permanent"?
The verse says that lustful thoughts are THE SAME as committing adultery. So if you are going to be legalistic, any man (or woman) who has looked upon a person with lustful thoughts is ALREADY an adulterer....and by your definition, not fit to be married to anyone.
Matt 5:28. But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart.
(kind of interesting that this verse is in the very same chapter as the verse that says a divorced woman can't get married because of adultery)
Was David not punished?Is this the really the "big" sin? How did King David remain a man whom God loved? David had multiple wives...including at least one that was gained through an adulterous relationship. God loved Bathsheba enough to include her in Jesus' lineage even after all the sins that were committed even after she entered into a real adulterous relationship.
So the sin is divorce and not adultery? So that makes divorce is the unforgivable sin? I simply don't agree.The Bible says that if you commit adultery and are divorced by your spouse, you can not remarry. There are no exceptions written in the Bible. None. It is not the sin of adultery which prohibits remarriage, it is the act of divorce. You can be forgiven the sin of adultery. But, you are still not allowed to remarry, even if you have repented and been forgiven.
If you commit the sin of adultery, even if it is only in your heart (lustful thoughts), and are not divorced, you must repent. If you are divorced because of "lustful thoughts", (guys who are hooked on internet obscenities comes to mind), and are divorced for that reason, you are not allowed to remarry. It is the same as if you actually committed the physical act of adultery.
I fail to see the notion that a bishop, or anyone other than Christ has the authority to overrule Scriptural Truth. And He would not do so....ever.
Indeed. What's the point of believing in God's forgiveness if its power is so limited? It seems rather blasphemous to say that the sin is greater than him.My thought is that if she is already divorced...over and done...meaning she is not married anymore, then God's grace is big enough to cover her sins, past and present, and make her a new creature in Christ....which means everything in her past is clean including the record of being married. She is not punished by the mistakes and decisions she made in her past.
If you truly believe that she is forever handicapped by this past failure/sin, then you have to believe that all people are forever handicapped by their past. So if a man ever masturbated while thinking about a woman, he has "committed adultery" with her and is equally copable for his sins and impure state for ever considering entering into marriage with a Christian woman.