Do YOU have a crush on anyone? (59)

Miss Spaulding

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Oh, you and Ireland are definitely on the potential list. :bigeye: Be careful what you ask for. :ahah:


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As you said.....be careful what you ask for. ^_^
 
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I haven't had a real crush in like the last 3-4 years. I begin to wonder what is happening, whether I have lost attraction to other people or maybe I just haven't found anyone who interests me.
I can relate to this. I sometimes think I am too introverted and independent by nature and that's why I rarely feel that attraction to others.

Honestly, I think I stopped crushing about the same time frame. I think when this happens it just means that we now know what we are looking for? Just a thought.
I think it can mean different things to different people, but I definitely agree with that. Perhaps we are matured more and see things clearer than before, so it is very likely you now know what you are looking for more than before and it subtracts a lot of people from the equation. I don't know if you are an introvert or not, and I know that not everyone is the same, but I think for some introverts, it can sap out a lot of energy every time we like someone, so it is easier not to expend our energy into it when we can see how it would turn out in the long run. For me, I just don't really bother thinking about those things. I also think it is good to save our heart for the right one, though I know not everyone thinks the same way on it.
 
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I think it can mean different things to different people, but I definitely agree with that. Perhaps we are matured more and see things clearer than before, so it is very likely you now know what you are looking for more than before and it subtracts a lot of people from the equation. I don't know if you are an introvert or not, and I know that not everyone is the same, but I think for some introverts, it can sap out a lot of energy every time we like someone, so it is easier not to expend our energy into it when we can see how it would turn out in the long run. For me, I just don't really bother thinking about those things. I also think it is good to save our heart for the right one, though I know not everyone thinks the same way on it.

I can totally agree on that. I can be both, introvert and outgoing. It just depends how much financial freedom I have too. I feel most of my energy sapped with those who don't share the same lifestyle. You're right and I think that's basically where I am right now. Waiting for the right one and if not, that's ok too. I'm actually much more comfortable being single than I ever felt before.
 
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Oh, you and Ireland are definitely on the potential list. :bigeye: Be careful what you ask for. :ahah:

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As you said.....be careful what you ask for. ^_^


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William and Miss Spaulding (and Ireland) sitting in tree, K-I-S-S-I-N-G.
First comes love, then marriage and then.......I forget the rest.....
 
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William and Miss Spaulding (and Ireland) sitting in tree, K-I-S-S-I-N-G.
First comes love, then marriage and then.......I forget the rest.....

Ohhhh youre in trouble, now! Spaulding is already known for beating up guys. :comeon:
 
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The fastest way to a woman's heart is caffeine. ;p

Sadly, that is probably true. At this point, if a guy bought me a good cup of coffee and treated me kindly I would probably be willing to marry him. ha ha ha.
 
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William and Miss Spaulding (and Ireland) sitting in tree, K-I-S-S-I-N-G.

MR. MOE!!!! I will hunt you down and you will not be happy.....I don't do weird "share a man" kissing!:destroy:
 
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Miss Spaulding

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Ohhhh youre in trouble, now! Spaulding is already known for beating up guys. :comeon:

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William and Miss Spaulding (and Ireland) sitting in tree, K-I-S-S-I-N-G.
First comes love, then marriage and then.......I forget the rest.....

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