• The General Mental Health Forum is now a Read Only Forum. As we had two large areas making it difficult for many to find, we decided to combine the Mental Health & the Recovery sections of the forum into Mental Health & Recovery as a whole. Physical Health still remains as it's own area within the entire Recovery area.

    If you are having struggles, need support in a particular area that you aren't finding a specific recovery area forum, you may find the General Struggles forum a great place to post. Any any that is related to emotions, self-esteem, insomnia, anger, relationship dynamics due to mental health and recovery and other issues that don't fit better in another forum would be examples of topics that might go there.

    If you have spiritual issues related to a mental health and recovery issue, please use the Recovery Related Spiritual Advice forum. This forum is designed to be like Christian Advice, only for recovery type of issues. Recovery being like a family in many ways, allows us to support one another together. May you be blessed today and each day.

    Kristen.NewCreation and FreeinChrist

Dealing with a Harsh Sin

Dassark

Member
Aug 26, 2015
9
1
32
✟7,634.00
Faith
Christian
Marital Status
Single
Hi, I'm writing this cause I seek guidance on things that I have done and wether I'm doing the right thing to correct my mistakes. I posted on another forum but I want more input. When I was around 17, I attempted inappropriate behavior with animals, There was no penetration but I was close. I stopped before I could go any further. I was scared about what I had done and immediately turned and apologized to the dog and to god. I trembled the rest of the day in fear. I have trouble remembering why I attempted it. I do remember that it happened shortly after I discovered masturbation. I have in recent times gotten that under control. The inappropriate behavior with animals incident was a one time deal, I never tried it again. In recent times I have finally begun a journey into Christianity. I was always one who was loosely into it. I always accepted Jesus and God. But never did much more than pray to them. What I want to know, Am I on the right path? I understand that I must repent and I really try. I want to be forgiven but it's so hard to tell if I'm on the right path to it. I'm scared, I've read that one must forgive one's self and I do. But the memory creeps up the back of my head and makes me remember it like a plague. I've also read that one must take and learn from their mistakes. I've done my best to do that as well.

Other issues bother me as well. So many talk about the end of the world. So many say the lord is going to return. While I have no problems with that, is it wrong to believe in a better future, to believe that instead of ending the world will get better. I feel if I wrote something like this on a page where they were talking about it. I'd be called a fool, I like to believe the world will get better. Is it wrong to believe such a thing.
 
Last edited:

RC1970

post tenebras lux
Jul 7, 2015
1,903
1,558
✟80,684.00
Country
United States
Faith
Protestant
Marital Status
Single
Ask for Christ's forgiveness. Live for Christ and not for yourself. Do everything for His sake and to receive His blessing and no one else's.

"His master said to him, ‘Well done, good and faithful servant. You have been faithful over a little; I will set you over much. Enter into the joy of your master.’ " ~ Matthew 25:23
 
Upvote 0

Dassark

Member
Aug 26, 2015
9
1
32
✟7,634.00
Faith
Christian
Marital Status
Single
Thanks to everyone who replied. It's encouraging to know there are people who will listen. I'm getting over my incident and as for the masturbation. I've not looked at any inappropriate content but I have masturbated. But it takes longer every time I slip. It's not great but from what I have read it's going to be a long battle. I hope to get more support in the future and if anyone wants to talk I'm a willing ear as I want to help. Both myself and others.
 
  • Like
Reactions: Tempura
Upvote 0

grandvizier1006

I don't use this anymore, but I still follow Jesus
Site Supporter
Dec 2, 2014
5,976
2,599
28
MS
✟664,118.00
Country
United States
Faith
Christian
Marital Status
Single
Politics
US-Others
Masturbation is perfectly normal and healthy. inappropriate behavior with animals is contrary to what God intends for our sexuality, and so it is a sin. regardless, you shouldn't feel any more guilt than you need to. All of that was in your past. look at the Bible verses on my signature :)
 
  • Like
Reactions: Tempura
Upvote 0

Tempura

Noob
Site Supporter
May 2, 2010
1,766
2,105
✟320,561.00
Country
Finland
Faith
Lutheran
Marital Status
Single
Brother! You are on the right path, do not fear at all.

We often rebel against God's grace, because such is our nature. But Christ has given himself to you. He took your sins, because such is God's remarkable love. We find it hard to accept it, because we often don't know what perfect love is. We treat it as currency. We cannot understand undeserved grace and forgiveness, so we build these walls around us, as if to "protect" us from the love we really need! And what do we do then? We stare at our sins. We almost worship them, we think they have more power than God himself, and that God would never grant his grace for us.

Jesus came for the sinners, for the lost, for the weak, for the miserable. We are often all of those. Give your struggles to Him. Pray with an honest heart, with the faith you have no matter how strong or weak it is - because we can't lie to God - and take the cleansing peace and grace, it's free. Again, it's not about what you can do for Him to help you, because He is already there, He will give you peace. Whether it takes time or not, we can't know, but you can trust in Him. Whenever you ask for you to know Him better, to believe in Him better, for Him to guide you - he will answer.

Paul said these words in Romans 3:

"But now apart from the law the righteousness of God has been made known, to which the Law and the Prophets testify. This righteousness is given through faith in Jesus Christ to all who believe. There is no difference between Jew and Gentile, for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God, and all are justified freely by his grace through the redemption that came by Christ Jesus. God presented Christ as a sacrifice of atonement, through the shedding of his blood—to be received by faith. He did this to demonstrate his righteousness, because in his forbearance he had left the sins committed beforehand unpunished—he did it to demonstrate his righteousness at the present time, so as to be just and the one who justifies those who have faith in Jesus.
Where, then, is boasting? It is excluded. Because of what law? The law that requires works? No, because of the law that requires faith."

With Christ, you are in good hands. We all are. I hope you find peace soon, and I think you will.

I said a little prayer for you. And I congratulate you for your courage, many would have not admitted what they did.
 
Upvote 0

Joseph David

Happiness-How?
Sep 12, 2015
41
8
48
Elizabethtown, KY
Visit site
✟15,221.00
Faith
Christian
Marital Status
Single
Good news! Our good and perfect Father has the power to forgive what you do and feel bad about. It does not matter so much about what sins you have done, but how much you trust and believe in our savior.
Regarding "end times": Not even the Son of God (Jesus) knows when the end times are. We are taught not to live in fear, but live each day joyous knowing that we live because of a loving God who provides us all we need on earth, and the hope of forever in paradise (heaven).
Make it a good day,
Joe
 
Upvote 0
This site stays free and accessible to all because of donations from people like you.
Consider making a one-time or monthly donation. We appreciate your support!
- Dan Doughty and Team Christian Forums

Dassark

Member
Aug 26, 2015
9
1
32
✟7,634.00
Faith
Christian
Marital Status
Single
Masturbation is perfectly normal and healthy. inappropriate behavior with animals is contrary to what God intends for our sexuality, and so it is a sin. regardless, you shouldn't feel any more guilt than you need to. All of that was in your past. look at the Bible verses on my signature :)

What causes me stress is not really the masturbation. But what it usually entails doing. I will wholly admit I can not touch with out some sort of stimuli. I haven't actually viewed any inappropriate content or anything in a while. Sadly when I do it, The material is all coming from my head. Masturbation for me has not been as severe of a problem. than from what alot of people I have read deal with. I try my best to not do the deed due to the inappropriate content and truthfully I'd rather be with out both. The inappropriate behavior with animals I have mostly gotten over and will always know how wrong it is. It's hard for me to remember what drove me to even attempt it. even as I sit here and type about it. The memory comes in and tries to get me down. But I always try and put my head up high and rid my self of it. So thank you for your response.
 
Upvote 0

grandvizier1006

I don't use this anymore, but I still follow Jesus
Site Supporter
Dec 2, 2014
5,976
2,599
28
MS
✟664,118.00
Country
United States
Faith
Christian
Marital Status
Single
Politics
US-Others
What causes me stress is not really the masturbation. But what it usually entails doing. I will wholly admit I can not touch with out some sort of stimuli. I haven't actually viewed any inappropriate content or anything in a while. Sadly when I do it, The material is all coming from my head. Masturbation for me has not been as severe of a problem. than from what alot of people I have read deal with. I try my best to not do the deed due to the inappropriate content and truthfully I'd rather be with out both. The inappropriate behavior with animals I have mostly gotten over and will always know how wrong it is. It's hard for me to remember what drove me to even attempt it. even as I sit here and type about it. The memory comes in and tries to get me down. But I always try and put my head up high and rid my self of it. So thank you for your response.
my advice would be to not think about any one specific person and just get it over with to clear your head. and don't feel so guilty about it, that will only make it worse.
 
Upvote 0
This site stays free and accessible to all because of donations from people like you.
Consider making a one-time or monthly donation. We appreciate your support!
- Dan Doughty and Team Christian Forums