I've moved around quite a bit, and a lot of people in my life just come and go. There's a lot of people whom I've spoken with while in my 20s whom I just completely lost contact with. I got very upset about it, as a lot of them didn't seem to want to keep in touch. I've noticed I've grown a bit hardened about it.
Now, I don't really bond as easily anymore. I've heard from others that it's harder to make friends as you get older. I've noticed that I just don't feel as strong of bonds as I once did. The people I've met now were not present for the majority of my life. I have so many experiences separate from them. I have very little contact with people I knew in my formative years, and I just come alight at meeting people I've known from such a long time ago. Now, I feel like my bonds are weak. It's more of a shallow meeting to do something rather than a strong shared experience.
Does anyone else notice this? Is this common with getting older?
Now, I don't really bond as easily anymore. I've heard from others that it's harder to make friends as you get older. I've noticed that I just don't feel as strong of bonds as I once did. The people I've met now were not present for the majority of my life. I have so many experiences separate from them. I have very little contact with people I knew in my formative years, and I just come alight at meeting people I've known from such a long time ago. Now, I feel like my bonds are weak. It's more of a shallow meeting to do something rather than a strong shared experience.
Does anyone else notice this? Is this common with getting older?