Okay, fine, the Supreme Court has ruled that the gays can get married, but it doesn't mean they need to get tax breaks from getting married.
If that's the case, then neither should straight couples...
Us single folks are tired of having to pay more than our fair share so that a couple who
chose to have kids of their own accord can have a tax break...that was their life decision, it shouldn't cost me more money.
I'm being facetious there...but hopefully it makes my point.
The government gave tax breaks because they wanted to promote the creation of family, and a stable foundation for starting a family. Gay people can't start families, the best they can do is adopt from other people's families.
No, the government gave tax breaks for it as a shoddy effort at an economic equalizer. The theory was that if there was a household where both spouses had to work to keep the household going, they'd have a smaller tax burden than a person who made that same amount of money on their own.
Clearly the plan backfired, within 10-15 years of these tax breaks being introduced, the divorce rate skyrocketed...which can lead us to believe one thing. The promise of a smaller tax burden encouraged some couples to get married for the benefits when they weren't really ready to do so...or wouldn't have gotten married otherwise.
The idea that married couples should be able to get a "marriage bonus" (as it's referred to) came about thanks to the 81st and 82nd congress. (Democratic majority in both)
They don't deserve the tax credits from marriage. Make them pay their fair share, if they can't positively contribute to society through their marriage, they still need to pay their higher taxes.
As I noted before, then so do straight married couples. Why should I have to pay more in taxes than them based on their personal life choices?
Marriage isn't about love, it's also about benefitting society. Gay people if anything need to pay a high fee to get married due to their inability to procreate.
From the individual standpoint (as it relates to the legislative process), it's about legal rights and statuses. You can't say that one group of people gets a tax break from theirs but then deny another group that same break for theirs. It's an all-or-nothing deal.
If I were to make a law like the following, would you say it's a fair law?:
"Everyone has the right to get a drivers license...however, since people living in the suburbs are more likely to be able to afford their own cars than someone in the inner city, and thus provide their own transportation (which provides a 'benefit' to society by not having to use public transportation), we're going to give them a tax break for having a drivers license...but we're not going to give that to the folks in the inner city"
Let the gays call what they have marriage, doesn't mean they should get all the benefits of marriage that was created for opposite sex couples.
If your argument is really about the benefits, then you should be opposing benefits for straight couples as well. If a couple needs to have the government dangling a carrot in front of them to get married and push out a few kids, then that couple shouldn't be married, or having kids.
...but with all that being said. The argument against benefits is a weak one at best. As I mentioned earlier, the idea of benefits for marriage was a poor attempt at an economic equalizer by the democrats in congress at that time. The only time this tax benefit really comes into play is if the two members of the couple have a large disparity in incomes.
Here's an example:
Joe & Mike are married
Scenario A) Joe's taxable income $35k/year - Mike's is the same.
If they file jointly, their tax burden as a couple is $9,596
If they file separately, they each have an individual tax burden of $4,800, x2 would be $9,600
A whopping $4 difference
Scenario B) Joe's taxable income is $50k/year - Mike's is $20k
If they file jointly, it's the same $9,596
If they file separately, Joe pays $8,363 - Mike pays $2,550
A $1,317 difference
Scenario C) Joe's taxable income is $70k - Mike doesn't work (Joe supports the household & Mike)
If filed jointly, it's $9,596
If Mike files as single, it's $13,363
A $3,767 difference
Scenario A is trivial...in scenarios B & C, Joe is getting a tax break because he is providing a positive service for society...he's shouldering the responsibility of housing, feeding, and clothing Mike so that the tax payers don't have to via entitlements.
Is Joe getting that $3700 break...you bet. ...because if Joe wasn't doing that, Mike would be collecting a much larger amount via Welfare and Food Stamp programs.
Only 1.6% of the population identifies as gay.
Or ~4,800,000 people
On average 51% of couples in the US get married (that's a blanket stat on all relationships in general
So, we could roughly expect 2,448,000 gays to get married in the long run.
Only 13% of households are single income, that means that we could expect 318,240 gays to get the "marriage credit" tax break.
Average household income in the US is roughly $48k.
So, long story short, we could potentially have 300K people paying $6300 instead of $7800. Not really a big deal.
$450,000,000 less in tax revenue coming in (compare that to the grand total from single income married couples without children, which makes up 30% of households...and it's small potatoes)...
Or to put it in perspective...the US spends that much on 3 Trident missiles.