Hey there,
My name is Megan and I need major help. I want to warn that there are touchy details included here but I wanna get right to it, nonetheless.
I've been in a serious, committed relationship with a non Christian man for 3 years now. It's been a great relationship and he's amazingly sweet and loving to me and deeply cares for me. In fact, he has an engagement ring for me and we've both been so excited to marry, talking about wedding plans.
But as a follower of Christ, I know I'm not supposed to "mix unequally." Honestly, the difference in our beliefs never bothered me that much until I woke up this morning and started giving God the kind of thought and attention He deserves at all times.
But anyway, my boyfriend is SO attached to me and quite frankly, relies on me for happiness. He's a wonderful person to be in love with but he has dark personal issues, including self-harm. To put it lightly, he's a danger to himself, and considering the fact that he seems to DEPEND on me for good well-being, I'm up against a wall.
I could change my entire life for God in a snap if I didn't feel so pressured by this.
So basically, I want to repent of my sins entirely and live purely as a Christian, but I also don't want to be responsible for literally destroying someone's life. I know that I need to choose God, but I don't know how to approach this. I feel so stupid for letting the relationship go THIS far before changing my heart.
Anyone that understands, please help. This is such a delicate situation and I don't know what to do.
My name is Megan and I need major help. I want to warn that there are touchy details included here but I wanna get right to it, nonetheless.
I've been in a serious, committed relationship with a non Christian man for 3 years now. It's been a great relationship and he's amazingly sweet and loving to me and deeply cares for me. In fact, he has an engagement ring for me and we've both been so excited to marry, talking about wedding plans.
But as a follower of Christ, I know I'm not supposed to "mix unequally." Honestly, the difference in our beliefs never bothered me that much until I woke up this morning and started giving God the kind of thought and attention He deserves at all times.
But anyway, my boyfriend is SO attached to me and quite frankly, relies on me for happiness. He's a wonderful person to be in love with but he has dark personal issues, including self-harm. To put it lightly, he's a danger to himself, and considering the fact that he seems to DEPEND on me for good well-being, I'm up against a wall.
I could change my entire life for God in a snap if I didn't feel so pressured by this.
So basically, I want to repent of my sins entirely and live purely as a Christian, but I also don't want to be responsible for literally destroying someone's life. I know that I need to choose God, but I don't know how to approach this. I feel so stupid for letting the relationship go THIS far before changing my heart.
Anyone that understands, please help. This is such a delicate situation and I don't know what to do.