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Helping fiance overcome lust

Jordynn

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Dear readers,

my fiance and I have been engaged for almost a year now, and a few months back I saw he was submerging himself to a lot of sexual and explicit pictures of women. We talked about it, and I told him this was a boundary of mine that I am not willing to compromise on. he seemed understanding, and I felt like we found common ground.

This morning I woke up to him looking at a spread of pictures of a women in a bikini in sensual poses and exposing most of her body to the camera.

I told him how much that hurt me, and how I thought we found common ground. He wouldn't speak to me, or even deny or accept what I saw.

I packed a day bag, and left our apartment.

I understand the opportunity to lust is everywhere, and this is his issue to overcome, but I would love prayers for restoration in our relationship, for God to fill his heart, and for guidance in where our relationship should go, and how I should handle this.

I am lost, and would love some support.

Thank you.