Recent content by p60

okay, im sorry, i obviously did not make myself clear enough, i should have specified. Skinny does not necessarily mean healthy, you are right. Many women have varying bone structures, and muscular weight on them, so weight is not a good judge at all, but also note that I didnt saw...

Is it bad to look for a woman? I am a 20 year old sophmore in college, and I go to a Christian college, and there are a lot of people around me that are hooking up, finding boyfriends, girlfriends, etc. What I'm wondering is, is this bad? Is it bad for me to look for a girlfriend? I...

the scary thing is that this is exactly the same situation that I am in. There is this girl that I really like (who is in another country for the semester) and she is just so high above me. She is a near perfect Christian, and she is near perfect in every other way. Infact she's so perfect...

Why is it that you can't just go up to a girl and tell her you have a crush on her, or that you like her, or why can't you just tell a lot of other people that you like her? Like I want to... but there's this quelling uneasiness inside that prevents me from doing so. Why is this?

Don't worry, I wouldn't stop loving my wife even if she did become overweight, got in a bad car accident, or something happened to her which altered her appearances. And I'm not saying that I wouldn't take a girl who was really cool, if her one fault was that she was going to gain wait down the...

Hey, who's to say that I'm not going to work really hard at staying in shape all throughout my life, and even when I'm 50 years and older? I think that staying in shape is important not only for your health but also in light of doing it for your spouse, each man only gets one wife, and each...

breasts are one thing, i dont expect those to be the same many years down the road, but if she gets overweight and lets her body slide, that bothers me more, because that can be prevented to a good degree. I would do the same. I think it is important to stay in shape and be healthy, and I...

oh, and another thing that ticks me off: when I was talking about how nice it would be to have a girlfriend my good Christian friend comes along and tells me "I'm sure God has a very special girl down the road for you to spend your life with" And in the mean time what should I do? lol...

I respond the this when I get back to class, in the mean time.. another phrase that annoys me, "In His time" His time isnt the same as our time, bla bla bla

It seems like one of the most common and irritating parts about Christianity is how obsessed people are about God's path, especially in the area of relationships. People will make unfounded statements such as "well it's alright cuz really God knows which path and way is best for me, and if I...

I guess the purpose of me creating this thread was to find out if girls indeed are different from guys, in that they dont expect as much from guys in the appearance realm. I wouldn't ask or expect a girl to be different, I just want to know if they "are" different.

I dont mean to be offensive, but what if you were to just work hard at maintaining a good figure for the next 20 years?

Hey, I know I'm not a woman, so technically I shouldnt be here, but I had a question and was wondering if I could get some input from some women about it: I am a male, and quite honestly I admit, I am attracted to good-looking females. What am I wondering is, is what they say completely...

Alright, Normally I am a pretty shy person, I am a freshmen at a Christian college, and I wouldn't mind meeting a girl here. Is it bad to make myself become more social in order to increase the chances of that happening? Would that mean that I'm not being myself?

Okay, I'm hearing all of your advice, and I'm trying to be reasonable here... I have no fears about being the wrong man, or the idiot, so that would not be any reason as why I would ignore your advice. But quite frankly, I just cannot possibly see the intelligence on giving up on women...