Recent content by mommame2

these are great thoughts.

Here's the back story.....my divorce was filed in June -- it became final on August 20th. I have been married for 14 years. I have one son -- he's 8. I have always been the breadwinner and have moved a lot for my career. My ex is a photographer and he's always moved with me....as I have...

I just recently divorced. I have an 8 year old son. He had been told horrible things about me by his dad. That has since stopped for the time being. But it hasn't been good. My schedule is not good for a single mom. i make more than 6 figures and have a terrific career. But it requires...

My schedule is not good for a single mom. i make more than 6 figures and have a terrific career. But it requires work from 12:30 to 11pm at night m-f. It is not negotiable. My question is: if you were me. Would you give up the job and career to spend more time with your child? Or use a...

Well he does seem changed. He is def feeling very apologetic and dedicated to making us work. But I just can't seem to see him as a husband now. He seems pathetic to me. It's not that we had a great sex life or anything and now its a constant thing he texts etc. He apologized and says he...

I've posted here before about my many marital problems. I finally got divorced a few months ago. Well my ex discovered I had a new friend and he freaked out. He told all of my co workers and our friends that I was essentially a heating harlot. He turned our 8 year old son against me. Told...

I made an appointment to talk to a priest. Don't know if that's the best course of action....but it is where I'm at. I spoke with my mother and sister today and they are in agony over me and my choices. They are so scared that I'm going to go to hell, because of all of this. To answer...

Well right now the hardest part is dealing with his pain. He texts me pictures of himself naked. He is writing me poetry. He is writing love letters. Crying every time we talk. And I had our son last night and he started crying on the phone to him! My son says he cries a lot. How do I...

Well he was not trying to protect my assets. He was trying to take the easy way out. I think its hard for me to go back to someone who has done all of this and then told all of friends and my co workers that I'm a harlot. And then told them that he may reconcile with me for the sake of our...

Yes it's very true.... I have known the problems have been there for some time....but it has been easier to deny than force change. Now he is begging, pleading and claiming he is not sleeping because he misses me so much.

Yes we were married in the Catholic Church. I would say the grounds are based on the fact that we were not able to fully consent to the marriage...since we weren't capable of doing so... and me not knowing about his "rape" and I also was repeatedly abused as a teenager.

Well, my BF's ex wife was the one who really pursued the annulment. He is Catholic ...but he is not as close to the church as he once was. He is of the belief...that God forgives and that being with me...as I wait for my own annulment (which a priest already told me was likely)....is not a...

Well, I may be just a lost cause....because I feel as if my ex has just crossed too many boundaries with me to reconcile...even though I do find myself wavering (as you have seen here). But, the thing that happened this week...is he started texting and emailing very lewd sexual...

well of course...my son did not know that he was my BF ...he just knew his as a friend...with kids who liked to hang out with us. My ex was the one who told my son that I was cheating on daddy with him...(even though we were divorced)...and that he was my BF. My son will not be exposed to...

You are absolutely right.... I had a terrible childhood. And it is haunting me through this....my Mom is using the guilt to keep in the relationship. My BF is a Catholic...and has 3 kids and he has been helpful in trying to show me how weird and strange this stuff is.... He has said he...