Recent content by KevinesKay

The *'s are just a habit that I've formed. Using them as well the abbreviations, P & MB, are standards in the SA forums because they help reduce triggers for addicts that are caused by using the full terms. Plus, many PA's have filters on their computers, and using the complete words will...

As a PA, I can't help but have compassion on those men that have placed themselves in the bondage of sin. 22 men arrested in one relatively small area! That's a lot. And I can only imagine the large numbers of men that may not be soliciting minors, but they are living s*xually impure lives...

My wife and I and our whole family have made an oath to never walk into a Target Store ever since the boycott started. After receiving an email mentioning Target's decline in sales, noticing the price-slashing sales flyer, and then verifying the data on financial news sites, it's reassuring to...

That's a very good question. It's been over a year since I've acted out. Most people would consider me stable. But it's important for me to understand that I'm still a broken, imperfect human being. I'm still a sinner. And it's not impossible that I would one day choose to partake in that...

I'm not proud of this, but voyeurism is one of my acting out behaviors. Although it's been a long time since I've done that. I understand that many men have that problem. There is even P dedicated to that category. Here's what confuses me. If I go to someone's house and peep into the...

Viewing escort ads online is P for me. It would be automatic loss of s*xual sobriety for me. And browsing FB and the web at 3AM is clearly a boundary violation. He should be in bed. We all need sleep. But that's the nature of the beast, the flesh; by neglecting ourselves and replacing that...

Lord, Please give grace to Shawn and his new wife. I pray for their healing and restoration. Bless the quiet times that Shawn has with you, Lord. And provide him wisdom and grace to see what his wife is desiring and work on addressing that. Help him to put aside time for her; to provide...

Wow. I think you're on to something. I don't think you are misinformed. This is just my opinion, but I believe that brain chemistry does play a role in what things motivate us. What's going on in my brain is very different than what's going on in yours. In response to some of your...

Thanks for sharing tundrawolf. I can understand that you want a woman in your life. Is this woman that you're with now the one you want to marry? If she's not then you are truly acting against your own morals and beliefs. And you would be better off on your own as you said. The apostle Paul...

Hey repentantheart, Wow! Your sharing was good. You truly bared your soul. And I thank you for that. What's really encouraging is that you are young. You have your whole life ahead of you. And I really appreciate your persistence in not giving up. You faced quite bit of trauma when you...

Hey arahnpete, I noticed that you were on this forum about 7 years ago. Welcome back. You're previous posts back in the day discuss an incredibly important topic that is so vital in dealing with PA (p*rn addiction). And you started that thread. Thank you. Some of those responses were...

I have an 18 year old son diagnosed with Asperger's. And he struggles with getting on task at school. He has personal hygiene issues. He's much better now, but he can be so difficult especially when it comes to his younger sisters. He just graduated high school this month. He's going to be...

Hey Jack, Thanks for sharing, welcome. For me, sanctification can be a long process. Repentance, for me, doesn't mean that I'll never, ever sin again. It means that I choose to pay attention to the part of me that wants to follow the will of God. I'm emphasizing the words part of me...

Stevo in Christ, Hi, I'll second what you said. I cannot PM anyone either yet. So being part of an email accountability thread would be such a great thing. I would like to join too. Say, here's an idea. I heard that it takes about 20 messages and 5 likes to get PM capability. I'll review...

Thank you, SirDude, for sharing. I can really relate to your struggles. MB has been such a challenging thing for me to deal with too. So I'll pray. Lord, Thank you for SirDude's honesty and desire to please you with his life and body. He only wants to successfully consecrate it as your...