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    Question for husbands married to non affectionate women

    Praise report!!!! Today is our anniversary. I have been nervous about it due to our situation. My husband got home around midnight from work and was in bed when I got out of the shower. I went to bed soon after him and thought he was asleep. He rolled over and we held each other, loved on...
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    Question for husbands married to non affectionate women

    Is there a reason she was non affectionate? For years I didn't have insight as to why I didn't show affection. Counseling has helped me out so much!!! For years I tried to "fix" me and for years my husband tried to "fix" me but God was the only one who could transform me and heal me. If...
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    Question for husbands married to non affectionate women

    I will for sure take the quiz....thanks! I know what he wants. I always have. Communication is good between us. Up until recently I just never got what the big deal was with affection. Because of that, it lead him to want out and not want me to love on him. However, I slowly see things...
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    Question for husbands married to non affectionate women

    Prayers very much appreciated. My husband is in an I dont care attitude and told me today he is just going to be selfish. That it does no good to be nice to people. I kept my mouth shut ( which is new for me).....I just said good luck with that. It's so hard to see him with his back to...
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    Question for husbands married to non affectionate women

    Praying he sees the changes in me. We just had a great time together before he went to work. Seeking God's will on this. My husband is away from God right now and as much as I want my marriage reconciled, I pray my husband turns back to the Lord. My husband gave me a hug before going to...
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    Question for husbands married to non affectionate women

    He has started to hug me. There have been some intimate moments as of late but he says he still wants out. He says things sometimes that sounds like he wants to stay but then says things about divorce. I gave him to God. I will be the wife God wants me to be to him and pray for God to heal...
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    Question for husbands married to non affectionate women

    Yes I do....mine is acts of service. His is physical affection. It's not like I'm not affectionate at all, just not enough for him. But I want to change that. I am in counseling and am seeing things totally different. I totally understand why he feels the way he does. I'm just praying we...
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    Question for husbands married to non affectionate women

    Thanks for the responses. He feels like I have rejected him and doubts my love. I have shown love in other ways. Suprise get aways, he has a star in the galaxy with his name on it, love texts and notes and writing I love you on the mirror in lipstick just to name a few. He wants the...
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    Having a conversation with my wife is almost impossible

    There is probably a deeper issue that even she doesn't see as the root of the issue. I can somewhat relate. You may need to go to counseling. She may have things deeply rooted in her that she grew up with and thinks all is well and cannot see the hurt it is causing.
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    Question for husbands married to non affectionate women

    I have a question for husbands that want affection from their wives but for whatever reason they don't do it. I will try to keep this short....God has been working on me and the timing is great and terrible. Due to years of not enough affection from me, my husband, my best friend, the love of...