Recent content by Avaya

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    Do You and Your Spouse Vote The Same?

    I think we do. We do not ask one another how we voted. But based upon discussion prior to voting, I think we do, for the most part, vote the same.
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    Should women obey their husbands even when they don't want to?

    IMO, yes. I think God will bless this as He has assigned the husband to be the head of the family. I'm struggling with this very thing right now because I want my son in private school and dad has said 'no'.
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    He's missing so much

    I'm assuming your husband is in the military and is overseas somewhere. I just want to say THANK YOU for the sacrifices your family makes so that my family can be safe! Thank you, thank you, thank you!
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    because you love them

    Clip his toenails. I hate doing it, but I do it anyway because he asks.
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    Insecurity and the ex wife - Question for the remarried women here.

    :amen: :clap: :clap: :clap: :amen:
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    Women Only - Unisex Bathroom Poll

    Well, I think we need more info - is there a lock on the door? If there is a lock on the door so that when he's using the urinal a woman can't walk in on him, then I'd be fine with it. To be honest, I think urinals where MEN can walk in on you is just as gross.
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    Driving the wife away.

    I think it has more to do with what a husband doesn't do than anything else. Women need to feel treasured by her husband - and I think I'm right on when I say that when he makes her feel treasured, anything else can be weathered. Now, let me add that when she doesn't feel treasured, another...
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    Insecurity and the ex wife - Question for the remarried women here.

    I used to struggle with insecurity but not anymore. I see how totally lost she is (especially this week in light of an increase in child support she is seeking, seemingly without any desire to discuss it and agree to some mutual amount). She is a miserable person, but puts on a good face...
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    changing your name

    In Arkansas, you can give the baby ANY last name you want. It doesn't have to be mother's last name or father's last name. I wasn't married to my husband when our son was born, and we were broken up, so he wasn't there to sign the birth certificate. I still gave our son his last name. Later...
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    11 "Don't Tell The Wife" Secrets

    I didn't even think it was funny. I could be wrong, but I don't think any of them described my husband either.
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    ? abt living with BF

    I think it would be wrong to live together outside of marriage, even if you intend not to have sex until marriage. You'll be alone (a no-no) and you'll be in intimate settings (a no-no) when you see each other in your sleepwear or coming out of the bathroom after a shower with just a towel on...
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    Take it to CF

    Excellent suggestion. Honestly, if you cut your fee for every sad story out there - no matter how true a friend he is - you'd be broke in a minute.
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    is this right or wrong?

    Yes, you can do all of those things, no one can stop you. Although, as a Christian, you would not WANT to do those things because they would grieve the Holy Spirit that lives within you. You don't go to hell for doing those things, you go to hell for not accepting Christ as your savior.
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    About To Marry Atheist/Agnostic

    If they dont' believe in hell, wouldn't that make them something other than a Christian? The definition of Christianity encompases specific things - it's not a menu to choose from.
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    Men like naughty women.

    There's a rap song, I forget the title but some of the lyrics read "a lady on the street and a freak in the bed'. I hear some radio dj's talking about that today, too. I don't know why it seems to be true, but it does.