William67
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I was actually thinking about a deeper theological question from what you wrote.
What if no one cheated but the couple got divorced/separated for other reasons. And then after the "human divorce" the man went out and sleep with another woman (before or after marriage)? Is this adultery and sexual immorality against his ex-wife?
If God did not consider the "human divorce" valid, does this mean the man has now (after the "human divorce") committed adultery against his ex-wife? And so now this "human divorce" got upgraded into "Godly divorce" and so now she is free to remarry?
If the answer to this is yes, that means the ex-wife must wait until her ex-husband sleep with another woman. And once the ex-husband has slept with another woman, he immediately committed adultery and sexual immortality. And now she is free to marry anyone she wants.
Another example is that she has to wait until her ex-husband is dead. Once he dies, the ex-wife is now a widow and can marry whoever she wants.
And what if after the "human divorce", the ex-husband watched some erotic videos? Does this count as sexual immortality and hence ground for a "Godly divorce"?
Hope this make sense.
A divorce for anything other than sexual immortality is not a divorce in the eyes of God. So, no matter the reason for a "human divorce", you are still married. Any sexual contact outside of marriage still constitutes adultery.
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