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FireDragon76 - We got smacked squarely up the side of the head with something similar at our church. Very diverse congregation across both income and racial lines, including about 10% of the church being from Latin American countries. Which means, quite simple, that some are illegal aliens.
A Latin American couple with children wanted to join the church. When an elder was interviewing them, they honestly told him that while they had a ceremony with a pastor, they were not legally married. There was concern about alien status and they were afraid to fill out the marriage license. So, in a church which had always taken the stance that to be a member you had to be married (which meant legal as the government would say per Romans 13) we were confronted with a brother and sister who had a ceremony before God but had not filled out the paperwork. That will push you out of your neat little box. Ministry is messy at times...
A Latin American couple with children wanted to join the church. When an elder was interviewing them, they honestly told him that while they had a ceremony with a pastor, they were not legally married. There was concern about alien status and they were afraid to fill out the marriage license. So, in a church which had always taken the stance that to be a member you had to be married (which meant legal as the government would say per Romans 13) we were confronted with a brother and sister who had a ceremony before God but had not filled out the paperwork. That will push you out of your neat little box. Ministry is messy at times...
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