Genocide:
noun
- the deliberate and systematic extermination of a national, racial, political, or cultural group.
But Sihon king of Heshbon was not willing for us to pass through his land, for Yahweh your God stiffened his spirit and made his heart obstinate, in order to give him over into your hand, as he is today. And Yahweh said to me, ‘See, I have begun to give Sihon and his land over to you. Begin to possess, so that you may fully possess his land.’ “Then Sihon with all his people came out to meet us in battle at Jahaz. But Yahweh our God gave him over to us, and we struck him down with his sons and all his people. So we captured all his cities at that time and devoted to destruction the men, women, and little ones of every city. We left no survivor remaining.
— Deuteronomy 2:30-34
One objection I hear
ad nauseum to the Reformed Theology view of election/predestination is that God wants to save everyone. So I get this quote quite often:
The Lord is not slow about His promise, as some consider slowness, but is patient toward you, not willing for any to perish but for all to come to repentance.
— 2 Peter 3:9
So how do my Arminian/synergism-leaning friends reconcile the multiple examples of God-ordained genocide in the OT with your view of God loving everyone and wanting them all saved?
When wicked people (and their children) die, they are not actually dead in actual
reality.
Because God exists.
So, for example, the very wicked people before the Flood, where God destroyed them all from the Earth -- they didn't die in a final way (not yet...) when their mortal bodies perished, but instead we read about them that they became "spirits in prison" -->
18 For Christ also suffered once for sins, the righteous for the unrighteous, to bring you to God. He was put to death in the body but made alive in the Spirit. 19 After being made alive, he went and made proclamation to the
imprisoned spirits— 20 to those who were disobedient long ago when God waited patiently in the days of Noah while the ark was being built. ... -- 1rst Peter 3:18-20a
And we read that Christ Himself came to proclaim to them! (verse 19)
When He had died in body on the cross but was still alive in spirit, Himself.
What did He proclaim? We read this:
6 For this is the reason the
gospel was preached even to
those who are now dead, so that they might be judged according to human standards in regard to the body, but live according to God in regard to the spirit. -- 1rst Peter 4:6
So, He proclaimed to the dead (dead only in body, but not in spirit) the Gospel message then!
Ergo, it's not 'genocide' in the way humans mean the word.
Because He is God, and He cancels death.
Those who die are not dead.
So, the mistaken part atheists usually get wrong when they try to accuse God of 'genocide' is that they forget (or simply don't realize) that the putatively dead people that were 'killed' in 'genocide' aren't dead ultimately, but instead are
alive in a new place.
Instead of 'genocide' a more accurate word would be 'transportation'.