Hello. I'm new here and i am going through a lot right now and really need some advice from fellow christians. I know what the world tells me to do, but i want a good opinion.
I've been married for 2 yrs but have actually been with my husband for 4 years. And its been a long hard road for us. We've gone through a lot and had kids very early on, which didn't help. And well to get to the point hes been unfaithful a lot. But as a loving wife and as a christain i forgave him. But even when hes not cheating hes always saying how he's unhappy and that he doesn't like my body ever since i had his two kids.
And about a month ago he told me he didn't want to be with me anymore. So he's out doing whatever he wants while i'm home with our two kids.
I love him so much, and the bible does say that i have grounds to leave if i cant get over the cheating, but the thing is I already forgave him. I want to be with him and i DON'T want a divorce. I don't believe in a divorce at all! But at this point theres nothing i can do. He said he doesnt want to be with me, he's out and about doing God knows what and he treats me very bad whenever he is home.
I'm just very confused and hurt right now. I don't know what to do. Please help.
Thanks.
I've been married for 2 yrs but have actually been with my husband for 4 years. And its been a long hard road for us. We've gone through a lot and had kids very early on, which didn't help. And well to get to the point hes been unfaithful a lot. But as a loving wife and as a christain i forgave him. But even when hes not cheating hes always saying how he's unhappy and that he doesn't like my body ever since i had his two kids.
And about a month ago he told me he didn't want to be with me anymore. So he's out doing whatever he wants while i'm home with our two kids.
I love him so much, and the bible does say that i have grounds to leave if i cant get over the cheating, but the thing is I already forgave him. I want to be with him and i DON'T want a divorce. I don't believe in a divorce at all! But at this point theres nothing i can do. He said he doesnt want to be with me, he's out and about doing God knows what and he treats me very bad whenever he is home.
I'm just very confused and hurt right now. I don't know what to do. Please help.
Thanks.