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To me, the key factor is her attitude.
Different Christian churches in different parts of the country have widely different standards and expectations of appropriate swimwear. If she is new to your church, she may not have had a clear understanding of your churches' standards about "appropriate" and "inappropriate" one-piece suits.
Defending herself is not necessarily wrong. If done politely in a respectful way, she may simply be explaining why she saw nothing wrong with her suit. If it was done defiantly and legalistically ("you said 'one-piece' and it's one-piece"), then she is not a suitable leader, at least not yet.
Different Christian churches in different parts of the country have widely different standards and expectations of appropriate swimwear. If she is new to your church, she may not have had a clear understanding of your churches' standards about "appropriate" and "inappropriate" one-piece suits.
Defending herself is not necessarily wrong. If done politely in a respectful way, she may simply be explaining why she saw nothing wrong with her suit. If it was done defiantly and legalistically ("you said 'one-piece' and it's one-piece"), then she is not a suitable leader, at least not yet.
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