That is the basic message of evangelical Christianity today it seems. Do you ever think about what kind of effect that can have on a person?
I grew up as a late bloomer. I never believed in myself as a child. I didn't have to be told this kind of message. But I loved God and I loved Jesus, as well as I knew how to at the time.
But then as a young teenager I heard that there really wasn't much to look forward to if you weren't saved. And I had doubts to my salvation. I had always thought that it was enough to love God and love Jesus.
Then, as a young adult I began going to church to try to find community. I had such low self esteem. But the message I heard was constantly, You're worthless. The best you could give is like filthy rags. You'll never amount to anything. I was surrounded at church by people who grew up differently. They were probably more cocky and sure of themselves as children. They did believe in themselves. They probably had lots of confidence growing up. So this negative message might have helped to bring balance and humility into their lives. But confidence was something I had never had.
Now (looking back) I found myself as a young adult surrounded by these people telling me that I needed to become even smaller inside myself, in order for God to fill in the rest.
Do you really think this is a good message for everyone?
I grew up as a late bloomer. I never believed in myself as a child. I didn't have to be told this kind of message. But I loved God and I loved Jesus, as well as I knew how to at the time.
But then as a young teenager I heard that there really wasn't much to look forward to if you weren't saved. And I had doubts to my salvation. I had always thought that it was enough to love God and love Jesus.
Then, as a young adult I began going to church to try to find community. I had such low self esteem. But the message I heard was constantly, You're worthless. The best you could give is like filthy rags. You'll never amount to anything. I was surrounded at church by people who grew up differently. They were probably more cocky and sure of themselves as children. They did believe in themselves. They probably had lots of confidence growing up. So this negative message might have helped to bring balance and humility into their lives. But confidence was something I had never had.
Now (looking back) I found myself as a young adult surrounded by these people telling me that I needed to become even smaller inside myself, in order for God to fill in the rest.
Do you really think this is a good message for everyone?