I have been in an unhappy marriage for many years. To try to sum things up, my husband is unhappy with my size (currently 5’10” 185lbs which is less than when we got married many years ago); I am unhappy with his lack of romance (he seemed romantic before we married writing poems and cards frequently but stopped once we said I do); sex has never been good and he feels like it’s my fault ( I can’t [bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse] with only PIV and he is not interested in anything but). So basically, we have lived many years unhappily ever after.
since my husband has said he will no longer have sex with me unless I lose weight ( he’s convinced that the 30-40lbs he says I need to lose will fix my problem). I have been trying to lose the weight but I’m becoming bitter and less and less interested in him.
My question is :
Men: do you honestly think my husband is justified in his position?
Women: Am I overreacting about the situation? Should I just suck it up, lose the weight, and do whatever it takes to keep him happy?
since my husband has said he will no longer have sex with me unless I lose weight ( he’s convinced that the 30-40lbs he says I need to lose will fix my problem). I have been trying to lose the weight but I’m becoming bitter and less and less interested in him.
My question is :
Men: do you honestly think my husband is justified in his position?
Women: Am I overreacting about the situation? Should I just suck it up, lose the weight, and do whatever it takes to keep him happy?