I was raised a Methodist, went to Sunday school regularly, was confirmed, always believed in God as a child. But then I entered my teens, and living in an ultra-liberal college town began a terrible slide into all manner of sin - the usual and the not-so-usual (drugs, alcohol, sex of all kinds).
I ran into a number of "Jesus freaks" in the '60's - and that described them pretty well - freakish, wierd, turned me off totally. But I was always searching, always believing myself a Christian because of my upbringing, but never able to reconcile my lifestyle with my beliefs. When I sinned egregiously, I felt incredibly awful - for awhile. I entered the Navy and things just got worse. What once titillated me to sin wore off and I needed more; and the world I was in provided it. Each new "shock" elevated me to new levels of sinfulness.
There were periods where I would run into Christians of various faiths (Charismatic Catholics, Southern Baptists, independents) that I believe God put into my path. And for a brief time, I felt "home" again - kind of. I left the Navy and returned home to college - and sin just increased; more sex, more drugs, more alcohol. Despite numerous interactions with Christians in my life, I was missing something - I'd seen tongues, done all sorts of singing, clapping, "praising", heard sermons, heard testimonies, been to retreats; I can't tell you how many times I've "prayed Jesus into my heart" kneeling in front of some televangelist with a stirring presentation knowing I was living in sin but powerless to do anything about it. I once prayed thus coming down off peyote and mushrooms - and I know now He heard me because He kept on goading me towards His eventual destination for me.
I hit bottom when the girl I had been dating (not because I liked her as much as what I was able to get from her) asked to get together again - this was about a month after I'd broken up with her. So I did, thinking I had another opportunity to well, you know... After talking awhile, she dropped a bomb on me and told me she was pregnant. I wanted to die. But after a few minutes of silence, she added, "but I got an abortion." I felt resurrected, literally. Disgustingly, I said nothing, offered nothing. We went our separate ways but I went home that night realizing just how low I had sunk as a human, as a man. I didn't care about anyone but me - and certainly not about her or the baby she aborted because of me. That night I prayed the first real prayer of my life - and I prayed it for my life.
The next day, the
next day - while walking between classes, a guy approached me and invited me to a Bible study. He was no "Jesus freak" of times past, rather he seemed a regular guy, so I said "yes." I met the other members of the study and started going regularly, and even began attending their church, which was oddly fun. I even bought my own Bible. What impressed me most was these people were "real" and not the usual freaks I was used to associating as Christians. They were deeply devoted to studying the Bible and to each other, and I realized what I had been missing in all my other encounters with Christians in the past was the Bible! Sure, Bibles were always around, but the focus always seemed to be on other things - singing, fellowship, prayer, "experiences." Not bad, per se, but definitely lacking.
The leader of the bible study I was attending took me aside one day to discuss personal things -
my personal things. Ho boy... After awhile I realized I needed to get some stuff off my shoulders. We discussed my lifestyle, my sin, all my sin. He challenged me with God's Word and I was deeply convicted. I knew I needed to repent. But he also challenged me that I needed to become a Christian. That floored me because I definitely believed in God and I thought I was a Christian! I mean, raised in Sunday school, believing, etc. But I knew in my heart my lifestyle was utterly contrary to that of a Christian.
But, I still struggled with this. I was scared to death that admitting I was not a Christian would be denying my faith! In the Navy, I had even been baptized once - but it was a purely emotional response and utterly insincere on my part;after leaving the water, I remember still having but one thing to say - "Get-me-out-of-here!!!"
I wanted to be as far from those people as I could. Not exactly a "Christian" response. So go figure - a young man living about as unfaithfully as a person could, worried about denying my faith. But I studied the Bible intensely, by myself and with others. One Sunday morning, in class, the teacher levelled me with a powerful study (not personally, but you know when God is speaking directly to you through others). At the end of the lesson, and I'll never forget his words, he said, "Now, I want you to know this is what I believe the Bible teaches. I could be wrong." Wait, a Christian teacher admitting he could be wrong??? Then he added, "but if you can show me where I have erred in this lesson, I will most gladly change the lesson..." That impressed me, his humility, his understanding of God's word, and his willingness to listen and even change if need be.
I went home that afternoon and prayed even more intensely to God, fearing for my faith, knowing what His word was telling me, asking Him to guide me and let me know what I was supposed to do.
That night, the man who would one day marry me and my wife, delivered in a powerful lesson God's answer directly to me. I knew what I had to do, as clearly as I ever knew anything in my life. I went forward after the sermon and gave my life to God, calmly but deliberately entering the water as that same man asked me the questions asked of all would-be Christians, "Do you believe in the Lord Jesus Christ, that He died for your sins and was resurrected on the third day?" I do. "Do you repent of your sins and are you ready to commit your life to Him?" I am. "Then I now baptize you in the name of Jesus, for the forgiveness of your sins, that you may receive the gift of His Holy Spirit..." I don't know anyone else's experience, but I know I died in that water and when I came up out of it, I was a new man, indwelt by God's own Spirit! And I rejoiced from the depths of my sould for the first time in my life!
I knew I had obeyed God for the first time in my life; I knew He had been faithfully leading me to this point in my life, and I knew He was finally rejoicing in my having finally believed.
Amen.
And thanks be to God who by His grace and kindness leads us to repentance and salvation in His Son. Galatians 2:20