J
Jenster
Guest
What will you do differently in screening your next potential gf or bf? Seems to me that being more discerning in the beginning would help me get into a long-term relationship that will last.
I plan to talk with the guy about several topics, to see if we are a match:
1. Whether he's looking for marriage and if so, what he expects it to be like.
2. The Top Three: Financial habits, child-rearing beliefs and sex expectations.
3. Whether he's willing and able to make the relationship work, including accepting the differences between men and women.
4. Baggage. What's his, what's mine and whether we can accept each others'.
Hm, I'm sure there are more, but that's it for now!
I plan to talk with the guy about several topics, to see if we are a match:
1. Whether he's looking for marriage and if so, what he expects it to be like.
2. The Top Three: Financial habits, child-rearing beliefs and sex expectations.
3. Whether he's willing and able to make the relationship work, including accepting the differences between men and women.
4. Baggage. What's his, what's mine and whether we can accept each others'.
Hm, I'm sure there are more, but that's it for now!