Again, read ALL of it. Read the line right before "So is everyone..." Do YOU resemble that?
I am not like the wind or the wind, Jesus is referring to the wind of the Holy Spirit, how He moves where ever He wishes, you cannot control the wind.
7 Do not marvel that I said to you, ‘You must be born again.’ 8 The wind blows where it wishes, and you hear the sound of it, but cannot tell where it comes from and where it goes. So is everyone who is born of the Spirit.”
And we are His workmanship, saved only by grace as a gift of God and this is nothing to do with us or our actions. Being born again is not our choice.
4 But God, who is rich in mercy, because of His great love with which He loved us, 5 even when we were dead in trespasses, made us alive together with Christ (
by grace you have been saved), 6 and raised
us up together, and made
us sit together in the heavenly
places in Christ Jesus, 7 that in the ages to come He might show the exceeding riches of His grace in
His kindness toward us in Christ Jesus. 8 For by grace you have been saved through faith,
and that not of yourselves; it is the gift of God, 9 not of works, lest anyone should boast. 10
For we are His workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand that we should walk in them.