Wondering everyone's thoughts what is and is not permissible and still, in all honesty, consider yourself a Christian. I'd like to keep the topic is non-judgmental as possible, so when considering the definition of a Christian, use yourself for said examination. In other words:
"If I did <X> I couldn't consider myself to really be Christian." Define X. Be as general or specific as you wish, but please back up any claims with Scripture.
Example:
You can't be a Christian and hate your brother or sister (1 John 4:20).
Wondering everyone's thoughts what is and is not permissible and still, in all honesty, consider yourself a Christian. I'd like to keep the topic is non-judgmental as possible, so when considering the definition of a Christian, use yourself for said examination. In other words:
"If I did <X> I couldn't consider myself to really be Christian." Define X. Be as general or specific as you wish, but please back up any claims with Scripture.
Example:
You can't be a Christian and hate your brother or sister (1 John 4:20).
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I often chuckle when someone asks me "What is a Christian?"
The reason I chuckle is: If you were to ask EVERY one in the world that question, you would get as many answers almost as people on earth. Oh indeed yes. For EVERY one; even non Christians espouse (often) what a Christian is; what they should do; and what they can't do, etc, etc and etc.
In fact, a Christian is ANY one; man or woman; adult or child, black, brown or white; "jew or gentile", etc, etc and etc; who has been "Born Again"!
John 3:3 Jesus answered and said unto him, Verily, verily, I say unto thee, Except a man be born again, he cannot see the kingdom of God. John 3:5 Jesus answered, Verily, verily, I say unto thee, Except a man be born of water 'from' the Holy Spirit, he cannot enter into the kingdom of God.
The name "Christian" is derived from the word "Christ". It is tantamount to a person being "born" in Florida who is called a "Floridian". Or "Californian" or Virginian". etc, etc, and etc.
So it does NOT matter what a Floridian, Californian or Virginian does, says or thinks, they are STILL a Floridian, Californian or Virginian.
This is the SAME scenario with Christians. For IF one had to obey EVERY thing that Christians, and non Christians say, NO one could EVER be a Christian, period. This is because we are all sinners and we never stop sinning until Judgment Day; thus NO one could fulfill the requirements. It is that simple. Thus we ALL have failed Jesus (Almighty God) since Adam and Eve.
This is why Jesus made being a Christian so very easy. ALL a person has to do is to believe "IN" Jesus. Once Jesus sees a person is sincere in believing that He WAS the Messiah, they are Born Again, and a Christian forever.
John 3:16 For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life. John 3:17 For God sent not his Son into the world to condemn the world; but that the world through him might be saved. John 3:18 He that believeth on him is not condemned: but he that believeth not is condemned already, because he hath not believed in the name of the only begotten Son of God.
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John 10:28 And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.
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Mark 3:28 Verily I say unto you, All sins shall be forgiven unto the sons of men, and blasphemies wherewith soever they shall blaspheme: Mark 3:29 But he that shall blaspheme against the Holy Ghost hath never forgiveness, but is in danger of eternal damnation.
Note: Blaspheming against the Holy Ghost is the ONLY sin ANY one can commit that sends them to hell. And they can ONLY commit that sin the moment they die or*. IE: As long as a person is alive; they can still be born again; even on their dying breath; IF they sincerely believe IN Jesus. Period.
* But IF they do not accept Jesus to be the Messiah (savior); OR Jesus deems that they NEVER would accept Him; regardless of how long He lets them live; they will have "Blasphemed" the voice of Jesus (Holy Ghost or Spirit) and they have committed the ultimate sin. Thus they receive the ultimate punishment in hell ("Burning lake of fire").
For ALL other sins, regardless of what they are; WILL be forgiven on Judgment day. Believe it or not. Read Mark 3:28 and 29 again.
Sadly, Christians and non Christians have attached a plethora of "reasons" why a person goes to hell. NONE of it is true except for the ultimate sin. For IF it was true we ALL go to hell period.
Isaiah 64:6 But we are all as an unclean thing, and all our righteousnesses are as filthy rags; and we all do fade as a leaf; and our iniquities (sins, transgressions and abominations), like the wind, have taken us away.
Romans 3:23 For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God;
1 John 1:8 If we say that we have no sin, we deceive ourselves, and the truth is not in us. That means you are a liar if you say you do not sin. Oh indeed yes.
Again, a "Christian" is any one that has received the second birth; as one of the thieves on the cross did.
What they do from that point on (in the flesh) determines whether they will be blessed or punished (or both by Jesus) while on earth. Thus; true justice of the flesh has been fulfilled and adjudicated at death.
Only one sin waits until Judgment Day; where those that have been born again will receive a 100% pardon (regardless of what they have done, said or thought); and the lost (non born again) will receive a 99% pardon (regardless of what they have done, said or thought with one exception); and that is, they have blasphemed against the HS. Thus they are cast into hell; the ultimate punishment because they have committed the ultimate sin. Believe it or not.
Leviticus 26:28 Then I will walk contrary unto you also in fury; and I, even I, will chastise (punish) you seven times for your sins (while IN the flesh).
Finally; I "quoted scripture" because the author of this thread requested it. However it is NOT necessary. The bible is not now; nor has it ever been the ultimate "authority" on truth. For that title belongs exclusively to Jesus:
John 14:6 Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me. (NO other entity ever is truth void of errors! NOT a single writer of any scripture is immune to error and fallibility.) Believe it or not. In addition: Because something is not in the bible; does NOT mean it is not a fact! Follow along:
Truth comes from Jesus. Often by speaking through His "messenger's" mouth. Oh indeed yes.
Matthew 10:19 But when they deliver you up, take no thought how or what ye shall speak: for it shall be given you in that same hour what ye shall speak.
Luke 12:11 And when they bring you unto the synagogues, and unto magistrates, and powers, take ye no thought how or what thing ye shall answer, or what ye shall say: Luke 12:12 For the Holy Ghost shall teach you in the same hour what ye ought to say.
In any case, may Jesus richly bless you and yours always 10 fold for the good deeds you do In the flesh; while justifiably punishing you for the wicked things you do "7 fold", IN the flesh.