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I am half german, half hungarian, and living in Canada. I am Canadian though, being first generation.
I would like to find out about my heritage, and I do enjoy it, but always there's always this feeling of shame.
I never really worried about it until this Rememberance Day.
I was at work, (I work at a public library) and one of the librarians mentioned how no one was at the Rememberance Day ceremonies.
I said something light about how, I'm sure people would go if they could..but they have work and such. (I mean here we are, both missing the ceremony because of work)
And she looked up at me and snapped "You could be walking along those steets speaking german."
I quickly, and I admit without thinking said "I wish I was." (I am currently trying to learn german through my Oma.) I said this, of course, in reference to my learning that I was doing, and merly expressed that I wish I knew the language.
She then asked if I was upset that vets aren't being recognized.
"Of couse I am, it's awful what they had to go through, but the only people in my family that died were in the German army."
It's true, the only people my family lost in ww2 were on the opposing side.
Now, I always get the feeling that I'm wrong somehow, and that it's my fault that I'm german, and that she views me as evil or something.
My Oma had to flee Germany, hates Hitler, and her brothers were in the German army, but weren't Nazi's (at least that's what she tells me)
But, when I read a book like "Night" or any other holocost book, I feel guilty.
It's odd..feeling dirty like this.
~Jenka
I would like to find out about my heritage, and I do enjoy it, but always there's always this feeling of shame.
I never really worried about it until this Rememberance Day.
I was at work, (I work at a public library) and one of the librarians mentioned how no one was at the Rememberance Day ceremonies.
I said something light about how, I'm sure people would go if they could..but they have work and such. (I mean here we are, both missing the ceremony because of work)
And she looked up at me and snapped "You could be walking along those steets speaking german."
I quickly, and I admit without thinking said "I wish I was." (I am currently trying to learn german through my Oma.) I said this, of course, in reference to my learning that I was doing, and merly expressed that I wish I knew the language.
She then asked if I was upset that vets aren't being recognized.
"Of couse I am, it's awful what they had to go through, but the only people in my family that died were in the German army."
It's true, the only people my family lost in ww2 were on the opposing side.
Now, I always get the feeling that I'm wrong somehow, and that it's my fault that I'm german, and that she views me as evil or something.
My Oma had to flee Germany, hates Hitler, and her brothers were in the German army, but weren't Nazi's (at least that's what she tells me)
But, when I read a book like "Night" or any other holocost book, I feel guilty.
It's odd..feeling dirty like this.
~Jenka