Every weekend our pastor prays for another Bible-teaching church and its pastor by name. We're not in competition with them; we should be cooperating with them.
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I always viewed it as cult dependence.
Create cohesiveness through us vs them.
We've got the truth and others are lost.
When you have limited virtues to extol find fault with competition.
Ouch!!!When you have limited virtues to extol find fault with competition.
You do have some options. Perhaps you could talk to your pastor about your concerns to see what she says. Maybe some of it was a misunderstanding. Maybe she didn't realize how she was treating you. I would at least bring it to her attention. My pastor's been talking about this kind of thing the last couple of weeks -- if you have an issue with someone, talk to them about it, even though it might be hard.My mother and I have been attending our local Methodist church (me off and on) - she got heavily involved with the children's ministry and got to know the pastor well through that. We lost respect for her as a pastor with how she dealt with the children's ministry, showed favoritism, was unfair with treatment of people who helped with the church. However, her sermons are still fine - but my mother is now uncomfortable to attend, stating that even if the sermons are fine, she can't get as much out of the pastor's message anymore.
My mother recently became re-employed and will no longer be able to attend church service because of her working hours. As for me, I'm not sure whether to find another church or just ignore I've seen bad signs of the pastor and still attend this one since I'm used to it and liked the other people in the church.
Thoughts?
UMC pastors are not in their churches permanently, either. If you are committed to the church, and you have great community there, then pray for your pastor and you can see if you can wait it out. I would definitely talk to the pastor, though.
Glad that it all worked out for you thenThe pastor has been in this church over ten years and it doesn't look like she is leaving anytime soon. I think she's been there longer than that. We did try to speak to her in different ways but no luck. Either way it is not as much of an issue right now - my mother left the church when she resumed working and I need to get back in good habits with church again anyway