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Would telling a friend, that you have high functioning autism

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Yes! If you put it bluntly, it might have hurt their feelings.

I worded everything super confusing, sorry.

I was talking about the opposite.

As an example, If I told a friend that I have High functioning autism.
 
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In my profession (computer programming) pretty much everybody is used to it, and there's no problem talking about it. I can't speak for other areas. I know people in our church who are high-function autistics. Both are active leaders in the church. But I don't know how widely they are known to be autistic. (I know because I had one of them in Sunday School.)
 
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I worded everything super confusing, sorry.

I was talking about the opposite.

As an example, If I told a friend that I have High functioning autism.

It's ok, I misquoted you there sorry..

Oh well! If that's how they wanna be, then it's their loss. You've got Christ on your side so, you'll be smiling the whole way. You've got yourself the best deal ever. Christ Jesus as your best friend. Friends who don't stay in our lives, were never meant to stay in the 1st place. Not to worry, Christ will bring you true destiny helpers (sincere friends).
 
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Yes! If you put it bluntly, it might have hurt their feelings.

Someone who has been hanging out with you, who has committed to spending time with you and who clearly likes you, gets on with you etc etc.

They probably already have noticed some of your little oddities and an explanation of why you do ....... Will help them understand you and help them in there friendship of you.
 
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I would say that by telling someone you are Autistic, if they then decide not to be your friend, it would seem to me they never were your friend to begin with.
 
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make them not want to be your friend or something?

I cant imagine why it would... there's nothing to be ashamed of in it and it doesn't change who you are... so if they know you already and like you, it wouldn't affect a friendship.
 
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