Endeavourer
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I wonder if this would be a wrench in the gears?
I have a girlfriend who has said to me that if she made enough money to support both us when we get married, I could stay home.
She does not like doing housework and I don't mind doing it at all. So I would be the stay at home husband and she would be the career woman.
I'm good with that!
I'd caution you to think about the long term before doing this.
Men can tend to struggle with depression if they do not feel they are producing. Also, your skills will deteriorate so you will eventually not feel as competent if you need to start looking for a job. Some men can handle it, but most men I know who have chosen that path have experienced a significant deterioration in their sense of self worth. Women can experience this too, but not as many do to the same extent men do.
If you chose this path, I'd suggest you stay in the workforce, working from home at least half time and retaining/developing your skills. Housework does not require full time effort. For example, if you are working from home you can get a babysitter for 2 hours during the kid's nap time and work another 2 hours after your wife comes home.
BTW, I'd advise the same for a woman, too, for this and other reasons that have been mentioned on this thread, including financial stability in an emergency (disabled husband, death of husband, laid off husband, abusive husband, unfaithful husband, medical emergency, etc etc).
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