The entire notion of a 'pastor position' is unbiblical to the core. Each group will consist of variously gifted people who are to function jointly as their ministry gift to Father's family. That concept seems far to challenging and insecure for many. But Jesus said :
John 3:8 The wind blows wherever it pleases. You hear its sound, but you cannot tell where it comes from or where it is going. So it is with everyone born of the Spirit." NIV
Or Paul: 1 Cor 12:7 Now to each one the manifestation of the Spirit is given for the common good. NIV
It is far easier to be led than be truly lead by the Spirit. A leadership figurehead is so much easier to live with.
In reality it's not just exclusion of women in some circles, but the virtual shut down of most people apart from having roles and functions Sunday School teacher, parking lot attendant, usher, choir member etc. Where are the gifts Paul saw as normative amongst
God's people?
This post could easily lead off topic very quickly. But my point is relevant; the issue is much bigger that a 'woman fully participating in all any any aspects of our gathered life.
John
NZ