J
Jenster
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Hi everybody - I was just hoping for some encouragement today. Sometimes I feel like I'll never get to that point in life where I will have an ease and natural joy about living, sort of like a "comfortableness in my own skin." Will I ever get there? Has anyone else had this experience and gotten there?
I didn't grow up with a lot of nurturing, so even to this day, I have a hard time with emotional security and following my gut instincts. I think a lot about my decisions, even minor ones. For example, I don't just say, "Hey, I feel like going to the swimming pool today!" and go. I sit there and think, "Yes, I *could* go to the pool...should I? Maybe I should do something else instead..."
So you can imagine, I make life harder than it probably should be, but I don't know how to get out of that. I've always been rather distractable in life, and take on way more than I should, and had my share of bad experiences, so that's led to this constant uncertainty. I wish I could just relax and have a sense of humor about life, knowing that I'm on the right path.
Does anyone have some advice or encouragement? Thank you!!
I didn't grow up with a lot of nurturing, so even to this day, I have a hard time with emotional security and following my gut instincts. I think a lot about my decisions, even minor ones. For example, I don't just say, "Hey, I feel like going to the swimming pool today!" and go. I sit there and think, "Yes, I *could* go to the pool...should I? Maybe I should do something else instead..."
So you can imagine, I make life harder than it probably should be, but I don't know how to get out of that. I've always been rather distractable in life, and take on way more than I should, and had my share of bad experiences, so that's led to this constant uncertainty. I wish I could just relax and have a sense of humor about life, knowing that I'm on the right path.
Does anyone have some advice or encouragement? Thank you!!