- Aug 22, 2019
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Good afternoon,
My name is Don and I have been married 49 years. For the last 43 years its been a roommate marriage. The bedroom has always been a problem as soon as the honeymoon was over. To make a long story short, my wife recently told me that the only time where she enjoyed herself in the bedroom was while she was having an imaginary affair, otherwise it has just been obligatory sex on her part. This affair lasted for for over a year, the obligitory sex has lasted 49 years. The holy spirit convicted her of her sin and she stopped the affair and repented. But this hasn't changed a thing with regards to the roommate effect. I am having a hard time dealing with this. Sometimes I think it's no beg deal and other times I think it's no different than having an an actual affair. I need ideas on how to handle this. Thanks in advance, don
My name is Don and I have been married 49 years. For the last 43 years its been a roommate marriage. The bedroom has always been a problem as soon as the honeymoon was over. To make a long story short, my wife recently told me that the only time where she enjoyed herself in the bedroom was while she was having an imaginary affair, otherwise it has just been obligatory sex on her part. This affair lasted for for over a year, the obligitory sex has lasted 49 years. The holy spirit convicted her of her sin and she stopped the affair and repented. But this hasn't changed a thing with regards to the roommate effect. I am having a hard time dealing with this. Sometimes I think it's no beg deal and other times I think it's no different than having an an actual affair. I need ideas on how to handle this. Thanks in advance, don