Luther is making some very valid points there. Get a license - very odd you don't have one.
Having a license will let you stretch your church finding net a bit more. I guess living in the south is a bit different since there are 6 churches on the road I live off of within the stretch of a mile. I'm pentecostal, and even
I feel uncomfortable at churches where I'm expected to wear long skirts and grow my hair out long - I donate to locks for love, so I grow it out until the minimum required length and then chop it all off. If I fall over, more of me is showing if I'm wearing a skirt at the time as opposed to pants. I can understand it, more power to them, but I feel uncomfortable at most of the churches that do that. Half of the people don't really care if you do or don't, but the other half, you might as well be a heathen.
It's so very important. I can't imagine dating a non-pentecostal, not to mention an atheist or agnostic. The way that he worships thrills me, and if my worship weirded him out, it would just be a no go.
It's a huge part of my life, and if the other huge part of my life can't get along with it, something is wrong.