I'm 21 years old and I've been checking out a few church college age groups. I go by myself which is really intimidating since I'm shy. I notice that whenever I try to introduce myself to a group of girls they think I'm trying to hit on them. So now I try to avoid introducing myself to girls at college groups even though I want to. Are girls open to meeting guys at church? Why is it always so awkward. How long will it take for me to make friends their?