why is inappropriate content so bad?

[Jaxxi]

I don't hate inappropriate content. I love myself. That's why I don't watch it. It's the same reason I'm abstinent. There's no upside to being enslaved to something you can't admit. If it was good you could tell others without fear of shame or condemnation.

What you're essentially saying when you rely on inappropriate content for stimulation is I'm a loser. You have no ability to find someone who'll love you and desire your companionship. You don't believe you'll have a rich sex life.

So you opt for the cheap substitute thinking something's better than nothing. Making out to a screen is pretty pathetic when you see it for what it is. If you could have the same you'd realize its empty.

~bella

Wow! That is so harsh. I personally think that it is bad because God created us to have self-respect and to treat our special person with tender love and respect/ privacy. This special act is about the love between the two PEOPLE, not their genitalia, and it certainly was not meant to be exploited and made vulgar. It is to be regarded more sacredly, as it is meant to be a spiritual act above all and inappropriate contentography removes the sacred spiritual aspect entirely and it becomes nasty. The things that are said, the vulgar nature of the act makes it shameful and perverted so that when you do find someone you respect and love, you dont want to have sex with them because inappropriate content took the beauty and the soul aspect out of it. Sex was never meant to be broadcast, publicized or exploited for the gratification of strangers whose perversion has them riding solo. Imagine watching monkeys touch all day. That is what God sees when he watches people staring at a box touching themselves.

 

[tampasteve]

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