What was the approach the Messiah used and directed His followers to take? Serious question, I'd like to start with that. This is what I am desperately interested in regarding the topic and I argue my stance from 1 Corinthians 6.
Off of the top of my head, I can give you one name. My dad. He abused my mom for many years, abused my older sister, my older brother and myself. My sister, bravest woman I have ever known, would throw herself between me and my dad so he would hit her instead. My dad was in and out of jail for it. Once he was out of jail, the abuse would intensify. I don't argue from this stance, that since my dad changed everyone like him will change. I know the church won't always solve the problem, but church (if the one conducting domestic abuse is a believer), is the first step, Biblically. My experience is not my argument, 1 Corinthians is my stance on this issue.
It took God to change his heart. It took a deep regard for the Lord and believers surrounding him (myself when I got older, my dads brother, in some capacities even my mother) to change his ways. I can attest, court temporarily fixed the problem. It removed him from the equation for short periods of time. God changed his ways, humbled his heart, and put an end to the abuse.
We can go deeper and argue Paul. Not really fitting within the domestic abuse category, but a murderer nonetheless. God changed his heart so amazingly that we adhere to a lot of the epistles he wrote. I argue from my stance from one of them.
P.S. Oh yes, Paul did get his murderous heart healed. Was it through Pastorly counseling? No. It was through a miracle.
I must leave this string until at least tomorrow to do other things. However, before I go I will give some examples of miracles happening per our Savior's instructions. While I'm at it, there is some info at the end about a miracle seen through the Shroud of Turin (which is where my icon comes from.) Miracles are still going on but much more needed!
A new book called Physicians' Untold Stories lists many doctors' reports about divine intervention they have seen in their practice. In one case a woman who had not walked for years, and who was on her death bed from multiple sclerosis. was prayed over. Suddenly the Almighty told her to "Get up and walk." That she did, with the sudden appearance of new muscles in her legs. She is now leading a completely normal, healthy, life.
And there is much more...
Now in the Bible we are told of a Man Who believed in Adam and Eve and Noah as being actual, historical figures. The Bible says He did miracles and raised the dead and healed the sick. He multiplied food out of nothing. He said we could do even greater things than He did. The Bible also describes His death and burial. Is there any actual scientific data to support those stories?
See secular news reports about Val Thomas, dead for 17 hours but now alive and normal after prayers from her family and her Church.
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From mainstream t.v. there used to be a vid called Medical Marvel Beyond Chance, from a secular source, with a pediatrician giving his report. this one attesting to a dying child's healing which cannot be explained by modern medicine, and came after a relative laid hands on her and prayed for her. The doctor can be seen reporting that the DNA in every cell in her body was changed. The vid has been deleted, though.
See CBN's short vid with Dean Braxton. You'll hear his critical care doctor, rated the best patient care doctor in Washington state, saying "It is a miracle...a miracle..." that Braxton is alive, has no brain damage and is normal in every way. Why? He had no heart beat and no respiration for 1 3/4 hours! His family believed in divine healing and they and others were praying for him.
. Also see CBN Dr. Chauncey Crandall Raises A Man From The Dead.
Part 1. This video is a bit faded but has the most complete information on this story.
Get Dr. Richard Casdorph's book The Miracles. There he gives medical documentation for miracles, mostly, but not all, from Kathryn Kuhlman's healing services. Casdorph came to Kuhlman's meetings to debunk her but turned into a supporter, as did other doctors. You can see him and other doctors in some of her healing services on YT. (She is now deceased.) Delores Winder is one of the cases documented in his book. You can watch her amazing story on YT with Sid Roth.
The book The Audacity of Prayer by Don Nordin lists medically documented miracles.
On Andrew Wommack's vids you can see doctors talking about "miracles" too. At the end of the book Don't Limit God you see a medical statement by a doctor saying that his patient used to have M.S. and diabetes but is now cured.
Bruce Van Natta was in a horrific accident where he lost about 80% of his small intestine. Someone he didn't even know was told to get on a plane and lay hands on him and pray for him. His small intestines grew back competely and you can see his doctors testifying to that.
Here we see many witnesses reporting donated food being miraculously multiplied for people who lived in a dump in Juarez.
Story of Christmas 1972
And btw do you think that Someone Who can raise the dead and heal people of deadly "incurable" diseases, Someone Who can make body parts and food out of nothing, Someone Who created time, space, matter, and energy - needed "evolution" to make life forms? No, He created them fully formed and fully functional in 6 days just as Genesis, a Book He always supported, tells you.
Then there is the Shroud of Turin. If you don't know, the Shroud is a blood stained linen burial shroud with the faint image of a crucified man on it. If you have heard that the Shroud was proven to be a Medieval fake based on carbon 14 testing, in the documentary Jesus And The Shroud of Turin you can see the very inventor of carbon 14 testing saying that the sample was invalid due to contamination. That vid is now only available (under $2.00) on Amazon in VHS format.
The vid demonstrates many miraculous features such as pollen from Jerusalem and faint images of flowers that are found only in the Jerusalem area during the spring, as at Passover when Messiah was crucified. With modern technology we also see that the Shroud has an x ray quality which reveals the bones and dentition of the Man on the Shroud.
There are many other vids on the Shroud, with scientific data, and here is just one:
Shroud of Turin Tim Rogers
In the 70s a NASA scientist noticed the Shroud's photographs had inexplicable, unique in the world, qualities. He got up a team of scientists, called STURP, to examine it in person in Italy. (No, the Shroud is not "just a Catholic thing" as the Vatican only came into stewardship of it fairly recently in history.) They used NASA, and other, high tech equipment with 100s of thousands of hours of research. Their findings are seen all over the net and were published in respected science journals.
The team was composed of 3 Jews, at least one agnostic and one atheist, and people of various faiths. They all agreed on these things: The Shroud image was not painted on, and they have no clue how it got there. It exactly matches, down to blood stains where a crown of thorns would be, the description of Messiah's death and burial as given in the Bible. The image could not be duplicated with modern technology.
About the Shroud I say "If it looks like a duck, quacks like a duck and waddles like a duck, maybe it's a duck."