Not mine. It’s more about keeping some things to yourself. The incel thing seems kind of whiny to me.
After being married for 23 years I was single for seven years. That’s an extended period of timeHow do you know (about your self-esteem not being based on female validaiton) if you haven't been single for an extended period of time? For something that you've admitted is not, or will ever be your issue, it's a bit rich to say it seems whiny.
Being classically stoic isn't "toxic masculinity.
My wife told me early in our marriage, 39 years ago, that if I showed too much emotionalism, it would frighten her. Just a few weeks ago, after a crisis with our daughter, she mentioned how much she has depended all these years on my calmness under pressure.
I think overt emotionalism in men does unnerve women, and every study and survey bears that out. Maybe it's because they worry subconsciously if a man can't control his sorrow or his angst...he might not be able to control his anger, either.
But a man who can't control his negative emotions is a problem to women. He should be able to say, "I've got an issue, but I've also got a plan to handle it."
And if he does have to do some ugly crying, that's what his male friends are for. It's been noted as a modern problem that many men don't have male friends these days.
Yeah, they do. What makes you think they don’t?Geniuses and prodigies that did not pass their genes. You cant run from the sick arguments you make.
Of course there are loser women. Why would you think there wasn’t? What makes you think there is a guy involved with me?Of course there is no such thing as a loser women, just men right? Just listen to yourself. You have no problem attaching labels to guys but a woman can do no wrong. Feel bad for the guy who involved with you.
If the law isn’t fair then it’s the fault of the law. Blaming women isn’t going to do anything.Oh right you are so deluded and priviledged to think the laws apply equally to men and women and there is no such thing as divorce rape? How dare you trivialize other people's suffering like that. Its like saying that a woman who was abused and threatened with her life just had a bad relationship and should get over it. That is disgusting.
Yeah, it’s even more stupid because THEY named themselves and have a cant with a raft of codes they use with each other e.g. various colours of ‘pills’ to identify their personal qualities.I had to look up what incels and MGTOW meant. It seems we have a name for everyone these days
Mines not based on it but compliments from ladies is really good for my self esteem. Same way as if I got props from a fella.Your self-esteem is based on female validation?
I had a similar dry phase in my late twenties. I'm going to go out on a limb and say that you didn't turn into a stinky misanthrope?After being married for 23 years I was single for seven years. That’s an extended period of time
Why do you think that? The appearance and disappearance of genes in a population takes place over time. Evolution is about populations not individuals. What was said about socially inept men being removed from the gene pool was flippant.That is a cop out.
I’m not the one who said that but I think it is more of a rude joke than perfectly serious.But it does matter because that WAS the whole point. Genes getting weeded out.
But the camaraderie of complaining and blaming others perhaps takes the sting out of the admission.If I was an incel I don’t think I would tell anyone
True. If your relatives have children, "your" genes live on. Each of us inherits different combinations of single nucleotide pairs, and how those SNPs express under different environmental conditions varies. It's not like each of us represents a uniquely new and rare mutations that will only persist if every individual has kids. Also, after enough successive generations have passed, our direct descendants might not even share combinations unique to our family lines. It's pretty wild to think about.Why do you think that? The appearance and disappearance of genes in a population takes place over time. Evolution is about populations not individuals. What was said about socially inept men being removed from the gene pool was flippant.
I was single and celibate for several years. Incels are whiny, at best.How do you know (about your self-esteem not being based on female validaiton) if you haven't been single for an extended period of time? For something that you've admitted is not, or will ever be your issue, it's a bit rich to say it seems whiny.
Of course there are loser women. Why would you think there wasn’t? What makes you think there is a guy involved with me?