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Exactly. In fact there is a proliferation of youtube videos and Tic Tok out of women who have hit the wall and are now lonely and regret wasting their younger years getting sexed up with the wrong guys and ignoring the type of decent guys they had a chance of entering a long term relationship/marriage with and who don't want them anymore because they are all used up. There are youtube vids of Filipina women who are welcoming of Western guys who have been ignored from the dating market at home and who are able to cook, clean and perform wifey duties that entitled women can't or won't do. When men make a choice not to deal with these types of women then they are MGTOWs, and when its a critical mass of guys then it becomes part of the manosphere. You can't shame guys into buying in to an unfair legal system, entitled women that have been through hordes of guys, and then saying they have to self-improve to have a chance of getting into more trouble in their otherwise simple life. Incels are actually more positive towards women than MGTOW since they are still willing to give women a chance if someone were to really take them on. MGTOW just sees they are trouble and will worsen your life.
As an egalitarian I believe women should have the freedom to live the lives they want. If they want to spend their twenties engaging in frivolous relationships with men and also focus on their careers and put marriage on the backburner, that is their business.
I do agree with you though, that the older a woman becomes the lower the quality of mates she will be able to attract. A man isn't mentally ill or only pretending to be attracted to women at their peak fertility as I've seen many women claim. Such a mindset is ridiculous. As a man who is in his early thirtie myself, I've noticed the aggressiveness of women wanting to date and settle down with me has risen. Personally, youthfulness is very important to me and I'm not really looking to settle down with a woman who's in her thirties. Nothing wrong with them pursuing me, but a few have tried to guilt and shame me into giving them a chance. If this kind of behavior is not acceptable for men, it certainly shouldn't be for women either.
As far as MGTOW, I don't know too much about it. Like anything that goes against the path of feminism, I take criticism of it with a grain of salt. MGTOW probably means a lot of different things to people. I've seen some MGTOWS who date a new woman every week, they just don't want to settle down with them. Women going their own way is met with cheers, the same should be with men. I'm sure some MGTOWs are toxic... but you can easily make the same claim about a lot of feminist women.
I get the feeling from them.. that any independent thought that straws away from female narcissistic masochism is the "manosphere". Which is filled with evil people, who are probably virgins who cannot attract women, lol. Often said by the same feminists who cry about toxic masculinity teaching men that their self-worth is based on sex. Lol.
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