Thank you.
For my own, the hate is nothing new. We've seen it for centuries and, for those of us who are open about our disbelief, we experience it daily. It's no biggie.
What gets me is the uninformed basis of the hate. I know from the numbers, but I also know from my own experience that non-believers are no less generous, compassionate and caring than their religious counterparts. But the idea persists that we must be somehow worse, because of our belief structure. I know atheists who are selfish jerks, I know theists who are selfish jerks. I know examples of both who are kind and giving.
I know that anecdotes are useless as evidence, but I provide this for some color:
In my town you don't let on that you don't believe, unless you're ready to deal with the reaction. So, in the faculty I work in, there's a guy who's been with us for 4 or 5 years. He is generally regarded as a regular, hard-working, amiable kind of person. Attends faculty functions, his kids play with ours, picnics, you get the idea. About 9 months ago at one of those work-inspired 'personal and professional development' days, he let it be known during one of the workshops that he had no religious beliefs and that he had always been an atheist.
In the following days, there was a very noticeable, but predictable, cooling off by most of the others in their interaction with him. But the thing that sticks most in my memory (and my craw) is the comment "You know, he seemed such a nice guy."
I wanted to say "He IS a nice guy!" The only thing that had changed was that these people now know he doesn't share their belief in unevidenced things. That's all. He's still the same person he was the day before, the person they all liked and got on with.
Unfortunately, I'm not as brave (foolish?) as he is.