QUOTE="Paidiske, post: 69763820, member: 386627"]I see this happen time and time and time again.
The statistics are there. They're not invented and they're pretty frightening, when we look at the reality of what proportion of women are abused in their own home.
So why, instead of being outraged and working with us to eradicate this, do so many men seem to want to minimise or deny it?
I honestly don't understand what good comes of trying to pretend this isn't real.[/QUOTE
No good at all comes from pretending.
In fact as seen for the last century ,
the world system is not set up for justice. Just the opposite in fact. It supports and encourages widespread and overall injustice, immorality and greed and oppression, with high up leaders and law enforcement often being protected culprits.
Israel when they were guided by YHWH and obeying Him had the benefit of His true ministration of justice , His Way, for a time;
as did the ekklesia assemblies in the New Testament,
and a few countries since the first century when they honored God's Word and knew experientially the Salvation Life in Jesus.
There are few places where God's Truth and Justice , Righteousness, is Faithfully administered, or even can be so: laws and practices and customs of men are skewed towards the flesh, towards carnal administration and "pretending" it is right or good somehow.
People everywhere are frustrated by this, and the poor and oppressed, women and men harmed by others and by the system, can hardly trust anyone these days - often who they trust , because of their title or position, is cause of more trouble and harm instead of being helpful. (and 'pretends' they are on their side; to maintain the illusion / the whitewashing/ that's been practiced so often and is rarely exposed.)
God's Word, God's Justice, God's Way, in Jesus, is true and faithful and righteous and healing for all. It's just not recognized nor practiced by many at all.