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The only way of accommodating such people if you are using alcoholic wine is to offer them a separate cup of grape juice or similar. This can be really isolating. If you are an alcoholic, there is also the risk that the smell of alcohol could trigger cravings, even if you don't actually drink it.
I'm not able to take alcohol in any quantity due to medical reasons. Accidently ingesting the amount contained in an individual communion cup would involve me being blue-lighted to hospital. I attended one church that started using alcoholic wine and I had to go to a small side table to receive a glass of orange squash instead! Half the time, the person preparing forgot to put it out for me, and then I'd end up standing there like a lemon while they rushed round to find a spare glass and something to put in it. I ended up missing communion services because I felt like some kind of outcast. Apparently, the reason for the change was that some people in the leadership team liked the taste of alcoholic wine better...
I'm not a drinker, but I have always found this ironic, too. In churches where a glass of wine would be practically a mortal sin, many of the people are terribly overweight. When was the last time you heard a sermon on gluttony?
Many have a doctrine that it is a major sin to ingest any amount of alcohol, even if one is not an alky.Probably because the Bible belt group does not want to offer wine that challenges those who are or were alcoholics.
Again, it would have been unleavened bread - matzah - at the last supper.In most cultures there's no such thing as "gluten-free bread" that would resemble what we think of as leavened bread: light, spongy stuff that you cut in slices to make a sandwich.
It is highly unlikely unfermented grape juice keeps long enough to have been used as a drink. Refrigerated it lasts 7- 10 days so one can it was impossible for the poor to have used unfermented grape juice. Ergo, they drank wine. Grape juice doesn’t keep.Many have a doctrine that it is a major sin to ingest any amount of alcohol, even if one is not an alky.
It is perfectly permissible to use unfermented grape juice, as the custom of passover allowed for that. The traditional blessing over the wine cups says "fruit of the vine" and not alcoholic wine specifically.
By this faulty logic, we could use a cheeseburger and ginger ale as long as we get "the point." Or we could simply eliminate communion all together except for a few rare instances, as many churches do. Anything goes as long as we get "the point."If a person is hung up on the composition of the elements, they're missing the point.
RESULTS:General Alcohol Statistics:
- Alcohol poisoning kills six people every day. Of those, 76 percent are adults ages 35-64, and three of every four people killed by alcohol poisoning are men.
- The group with the most alcohol poisoning deaths per million people is American Indians/Alaska Natives (49.1 per 1 million).
- Alcohol-impaired driving accounts for more than 30 percent of all driving fatalities each year.
- More than 15 million people struggle with an alcohol use disorder in the United States, but less than eight percent of those receive treatment.
- More than 65 million Americans report binge drinking in the past month, which is more than 40 percent of the total of current alcohol users.
- Teen alcohol use kills 4,700 people each year. That’s more than all illegal drugs combined.
Drunk driving costs the United States $199 billion every year.- Kids who start drinking young are seven times more likely to be in an alcohol-related motor vehicle accident.
Source:
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This is why those same people will encourage people to have a poor diet (i.e. consume pure sugar in the form of grape juice) instead of consuming alcohol despite the former being the bigger problem affecting far more people than the latter.
I'm not sure it is - in the church anyway. I've found a very interesting split in reactions when people find I can't drink. Non Christians either just say 'ok' or they might express mild interest, e.g. "Is that for religious reasons?" "Do you mind me asking why?" or "Does it bother you if I drink?" I've never yet had a negative response from a non believer. But saying the same thing to Christians...oh my! "How DARE you be so self-righteous and judgemental?" "WHO do you think you are?" "You're a hypocrite!" "There is NOTHING wrong with a Christian drinking." "How DARE you accuse me of drinking too much!"... etc, etc, etc. As the old saying goes, 'you howl when you hurt'. Maybe I'm reading too much into it, but the way so many Christians completely lose control and start screaming and shouting at me just because I said 'no thank you' to a glass of wine does make me wonder how many Christians have a huge problem with alcohol that they just can't acknowledge.I think ArmenianJohn's point is that the perception that alcohol is a major problem is more of a matter of cultural conditioning.
For the minute you take a sip, you are less sober minded then the moment you were before.
That's really not true. You have to consume enough alcohol for it to raise the concentration in your blood to a level which affects your brain function. A sip - even of fortified wine - is not going to do that.
It is possible to get tipsy on communion wine, but not at the volumes most communicants consume. It's more of an issue when dealing with what is left over after everyone has communed.
However, let's say a new believer is baptized and becomes a member of your church. While an unbeliever, he continuously abused drugs and alcohol. Upon becoming a Christian, he vowed to the Lord that he would never use drugs or alcohol ever again. The church (of which he is now a member) uses wine as a part of the Lord's Supper. What happens if this person stumbles back into alcoholism because of their use of alcoholic wine in the Lord's supper? What should the elders think, say or do at this point? Should they continue to use alcohol in the Lord's supper knowing it could make more alcoholics to potentially stumble again?
Well, those who believe Communion is symbolical might not care that much because it's the "symbol what it counts".We try to accommodate peoples needs but at the end of the day, it's a sacred rite or sacrament. Grape juice isn't exactly the same as wine, and without a clear biblical instruction that it is an acceptable subtsitute, churches do not err if they only use wine.
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