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Why can't priests marry?

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Rising_Suns

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hey all,
i'm sure this has been answered and I believe i have read a few answers on this board years back, but i completely lost it all in my head...so a little refesher is in order here. If you could be so kind as to enlighten me on the reasoning, and include references to the Catechism if possible.

Thanks a bunch brothers.

God bless you all.
 

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Because being called to the priesthood is a vocation just as marriage is a vocation.

They are two different anointings or callings on our lives. One is no less greater than the other and they both are sacrament with graces that God gives to each one in order that the person is able to fulfil his duty to each. They are parallel vocations and sacraments, they do not cross over into each other.

Celibacy is an important tradition of the Church that dates back to St. Paul as a rule or discipline of the Church. St. Paul has said himself that if you can not remain as him then it is best to marry but for the priest being celibate means that you can serve with a undivided heart and you truly are “married” to your flock that you pastor in a spiritual sense.

They are not allowed to marry so they can give themselves 100% to their ministry and because it would be a injustice to the family of a priest that they could not have the full devotion from their husband or father.

Not to mention that priest also vow poverty as Paul did to so they have no real means of even supporting a family or building a finical future for retirement.

The two just don’t mix.
 
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hey shelb thank you for your reply. Do you happen to know of any references to thew Catechism off hand?

Also, your reply has sparked a tangental question in me. I am well aware of Paul's suggestions to not marry if possible. Maybe the two vocations are equal, but then again, maybe not. Would Paul recommend one over the other if they wer equal? hmmmm, i'll have to pray about this a little more. thanks for igniting a new thought in me.

God bless
 
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Well I think he was talking about marrying and not being a priest if you can not remain celibate.

Jesus to also said a lot of things to those who he asked to follow him.

The man who was rich and wanted to know what he had to do to inherit eternal life, Jesus told him that he was doing what was right and then asked to sell all he own and follow him, and the man turned him down.

And also when Jesus said to one who wanted to follow him that the birds have nests and the foxes have holes but the son of man has no where to lay his head.

They are may other verses but I am at a loss right now trying to think of them.

I'll check the CCC for you.
 
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1575. "Christ himself chose the apostles and gave them a share in his mission and authority. Raised to the Father's right hand, he has not forsaken his flock but he keeps it under his constant protection through the apostles, and guides it still through these same pastors who continue his work today.[Cf. Roman Missal, Preface of the Apostles I.] Thus, it is Christ whose gift it is that some be apostles, others pastors. He continues to act through the bishops.[Cf. LG 21; Eph 4:11 .] "


1576. "Since the sacrament of Holy Orders is the sacrament of the apostolic ministry, it is for the bishops as the successors of the apostles to hand on the 'gift of the Spirit,'[LG 21 # 2.] the 'apostolic line.'[LG 20.] Validly ordained bishops, i.e., those who are in the line of apostolic succession, validly confer the three degrees of the sacrament of Holy Orders.[Cf. DS 794 and Cf. DS 802; CIC, can. 1012; CCEO, can. 744; 747.]"


1577. "'Only a baptized man (vir) validly receives sacred ordination.'[CIC, can. 1024.] The Lord Jesus chose men (viri) to form the college of the twelve apostles, and the apostles did the same when they chose collaborators to succeed them in their ministry.[Cf. Mk 3:14-19 ; Lk 6:12-16 ; 1 Tim 3:1-13 ; 2 Tim 1:6 ; Titus 1:5-9 ; St. Clement of Rome, Ad Cor. 42, 4; 44, 3: PG 1, 292-293; 300.] The college of bishops, with whom the priests are united in the priesthood, makes the college of the twelve an ever-present and ever-active reality until Christ's return. The Church recognizes herself to be bound by this choice made by the Lord himself. For this reason the ordination of women is not possible.[Cf. John Paul II, MD 26-27; CDF, declaration, Inter insigniores: AAS 69 (1977) 98-116.]"


1578. "No one has a right to receive the sacrament of Holy Orders. Indeed no one claims this office for himself; he is called to it by God.[Cf. Heb 5:4 .] Anyone who thinks he recognizes the signs of God's call to the ordained ministry must humbly submit his desire to the authority of the Church, who has the responsibility and right to call someone to receive orders. Like every grace this sacrament can be received only as an unmerited gift. "


1579. "All the ordained ministers of the Latin Church, with the exception of permanent deacons, are normally chosen from among men of faith who live a celibate life and who intend to remain celibate 'for the sake of the kingdom of heaven.'[Mt 19:12 .] Called to consecrate themselves with undivided heart to the Lord and to 'the affairs of the Lord,'[1 Cor 7:32 .] they give themselves entirely to God and to men. Celibacy is a sign of this new life to the service of which the Church's minister is consecrated; accepted with a joyous heart celibacy radiantly proclaims the Reign of God.[Cf. PO 16.]"


1580. "In the Eastern Churches a different discipline has been in force for many centuries: while bishops are chosen solely from among celibates, married men can be ordained as deacons and priests. This practice has long been considered legitimate; these priests exercise a fruitful ministry within their communities.[Cf. PO 16.] Moreover, priestly celibacy is held in great honor in the Eastern Churches and many priests have freely chosen it for the sake of the Kingdom of God. In the East as in the West a man who has already received the sacrament of Holy Orders can no longer marry. "


1581. "This sacrament configures the recipient to Christ by a special grace of the Holy Spirit, so that he may serve as Christ's instrument for his Church. By ordination one is enabled to act as a representative of Christ, Head of the Church, in his triple office of priest, prophet, and king. "


1582. "As in the case of Baptism and Confirmation this share in Christ's office is granted once for all. The sacrament of Holy Orders, like the other two, confers an indelible spiritual character and cannot be repeated or conferred temporarily.[Cf. Council of Trent: 1 DS 1767; LG 21; 28; 29; PO 2.] "

1583. "It is true that someone validly ordained can, for a just reason, be discharged from the obligations and functions linked to ordination, or can be forbidden to exercise them; but he cannot become a layman again in the strict sense,[Cf. CIC, cann. 290-293; 1336 # 1 3, 5, 1338 # 2; Council of Trent DS 1774.] because the character imprinted by ordination is for ever. The vocation and mission received on the day of his ordination mark him permanently. "

1584. "Since it is ultimately Christ who acts and effects salvation through the ordained minister, the unworthiness of the latter does not prevent Christ from acting.[Cf. Council of Trent DS 1612; DS 1154.] St. Augustine states this forcefully:
As for the proud minister, he is to be ranked with the devil. Christ's gift is not thereby profaned: what flows through him keeps its purity, and what passes through him remains dear and reaches the fertile earth.... The spiritual power of the sacrament is indeed comparable to light: those to be enlightened receive it in its purity, and if it should pass through defiled beings, it is not itself defiled.[St. Augustine, In Jo. ev. 5,15: PL 35, 1422.] "

1585. "The grace of the Holy Spirit proper to this sacrament is configuration to Christ as Priest, Teacher, and Pastor, of whom the ordained is made a minister. "
 
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1581. "This sacrament configures the recipient to Christ by a special grace of the Holy Spirit, so that he may serve as Christ's instrument for his Church. By ordination one is enabled to act as a representative of Christ, Head of the Church, in his triple office of priest, prophet, and king. "

As for the proud minister, he is to be ranked with the devil. Christ's gift is not thereby profaned: what flows through him keeps its purity, and what passes through him remains dear and reaches the fertile earth.... The spiritual power of the sacrament is indeed comparable to light: those to be enlightened receive it in its purity, and if it should pass through defiled beings, it is not itself defiled.[St. Augustine, In Jo. ev. 5,15: PL 35, 1422.] "

1585. "The grace of the Holy Spirit proper to this sacrament is configuration to Christ as Priest, Teacher, and Pastor, of whom the ordained is made a minister. "

Thank you shelb for the quick reply. how did you find those references so quickly?

From the wording of the Catechism, and from Paul's recommendations to remain celibate if possible, it seems like answering the call into clery would be a greater honor than to marry.
 
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Let us remeber that the celibacy of the Priests is an act of Discipline reserved to the Latin Rites of the Church. Priests in the Oriental Rites that are in communion with the Holy See can marry should they wish ( Although Bishops cannot) unless they are residents of countries whose Latin RiTe bishops have requested that only celibate priests assign to their diosses ( I think the US is suvch a country).
Of course the Married Priesthood has been and is acceptable among the Eastern Orthodox not in communion with Rome.

Being an act of discipline, there are instances where dispensation can be obtained as it is the case with certain Anglican priests that have become catholic proiests while married.
 
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Jose said:
Let us remeber that the celibacy of the Priests is an act of Discipline reserved to the Latin Rites of the Church. Priests in the Oriental Rites that are in communion with the Holy See can marry should they wish ( Although Bishops cannot) unless they are residents of countries whose Latin RiTe bishops have requested that only celibate priests assign to their diosses ( I think the US is suvch a country).
Of course the Married Priesthood has been and is acceptable among the Eastern Orthodox not in communion with Rome.

Being an act of discipline, there are instances where dispensation can be obtained as it is the case with certain Anglican priests that have become catholic proiests while married.

Well said Jose. Welcome to Christian Forums too by the way. :)
 
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Rising Suns,

Here's the online Catechism of the Catholic Church.
http://www.scborromeo.org/ccc/ccc_toc.htm

All you have to do, is click on any part, cuz they are all links to the interior. Halfway down the page is "Chapter 2" where the Sacraments are discussed. Keep scrolling down and voila!
 
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Jose said:
Let us remeber that the celibacy of the Priests is an act of Discipline reserved to the Latin Rites of the Church. Priests in the Oriental Rites that are in communion with the Holy See can marry should they wish ( Although Bishops cannot) unless they are residents of countries whose Latin RiTe bishops have requested that only celibate priests assign to their diosses ( I think the US is suvch a country).
Of course the Married Priesthood has been and is acceptable among the Eastern Orthodox not in communion with Rome.

Being an act of discipline, there are instances where dispensation can be obtained as it is the case with certain Anglican priests that have become catholic proiests while married.
A slight technical correction here. Sorry to nitpick, but I'm pretty sure the above is not exactly correct the way it's stated. I'm fairly sure that single men ordained to the priesthood in the Oriental Rites are also called to ceibacy once ordained. Therefore, once a single man becomes a priest, he is no longer free to marry. However, a man who is already married can be ordained. I realize this is only slightly different than what was stated above. But the way it was stated above says that a "priest" can marry, which to my knowledge, is not correct.

With regard to bishops in the Eastern Rites, it is my understanding that they are indeed chosen, exclusively, from among the never-married celibate priesthood.
 
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Also a deacon who is ordained single can never marry either and a married deacon who is ordained can not re marry if his wife dies and neither can he divorce.

But if his children are young then he may marry to give his children a complete two-parent home.
 
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Also a deacon who is ordained single can never marry either and a married deacon who is ordained can not re marry if his wife dies and neither can he divorce.
Of course the underlined pertains not only to deacons, but all Catholics, not just clergy - as there is no such thing as a divorce in Catholicism.
 
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Thank you all for your replys. I allready know most of this information, but I guess I've just been thinking about the reasons why the two vocations cannot be joined in harmony in some way. Financially speaking, sure most priests are not very wealthy, but what about the few that are and can support a family? Emotionally speaking, sure a priest must spend most of his energy to his church, but what if he finds a woman who wants to be his wife who will support his vocation as a priest and allow him his time to his church and be his encouraging counterpart?

I realize that, as a general rule of thumb, yes the two vocations maybe should not be combined. But what about the few cases where the money is there, and the wife is fully aware of the time her husband will have to spend with his church and so forth. Maybe if it said flat out in the bible, that priests cannot marry, that's one thing. But maybe some exceptions can be made in this case upon review of each individuals situation, like what you do when you try to get an anullment. Am I completely wrong in my thinking?
 
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