Of course this guy seems a little weak in the dating area, plus likes his girls 40 years younger than himself.
This can mean someone is trying to use a woman. I think love does not have us trying to use anyone. This means not only one I want to marry, but I love every person first and do not require that anyone do what I dictate. And this can help me to keep in shape for loving my wife
Jesus says if we are just in what is least, we will be right in what is a lot (Luke 16:10). So, I think it is wise to always invest in how to love each person, so this keeps me in shape for my wife. And how I learn to love with my wife, the way Jesus has us loving > this can help us for how to love any and all people.
The god of this world really has a hold on so many people and sometimes in secluded ways.
I find how Satan will isolate people with each other, and this can keep them from finding out how to love. We need to share as family with various other children of God. And while we are doing this, possibly we will discover a companion who is all-loving and who relates the way the Bible says to relate >
"submitting to one another in the fear of God." (Ephesians 5:21)
"nor as being lords over those entrusted to you, but being examples to the flock." (1 Peter 5:3)
But ones say they did not even get to know each other; God had them know, at first sight. Yes, God is able. But if you do go around testing and sniffing . . . you need how only God can make you sure; because there are ones who know how to put on the act you are looking for, how to tone their voices, how to talk the Bible and Jesus.
When I was 18 I asked my father why older men liked younger women. He warned me and told me to avoid them. And I took his advice.
One thing, I have to admit from my own experience, is beauty discrimination. I have been able to gawk at ones who look the way I like. But can a younger one relate maturely in God's love? And if I use younger women just to look at them, this is not loving. I am finding God correcting me that using anyone is not loving.
And I get into such better love, by not using people just to look at them, but care for every one in prayer and be kind to them. After all, among other things, ones maybe have been suffering and embarrassed with the discriminatory attention they get; they need to meet men who care for them and are gentle and humble like Jesus.