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That's wild. I know a guy (a prophet type) who God called early on a "Hosea". Years later, the bottom fell out in his marriage and his wife (who was professing to be a Christian, even in ministry, wanted a divorce) It's interesting talking to him though. He told me once that God asked him if he loved Him more than these (John 21:15) and he admitted to me that he pleaded with the Lord not to ask him that. Of course later on that was when he said his wife wanted a divorce with stipulations to never contact her or get anyone else he knew to contact her.Has God told me- “Do not be afraid to take this man as your husband”?
That’s all that matters to me. Even if I have to be another Hosea.
He told me once that God asked him if he loved Him more than these (John 21:15) and he admitted to me that he pleaded with the Lord not to ask him that.
IDK. Next time I see him I'll ask that. He took a trip to Pensacola, Florida and will be back some time shortly after the election.Why did he pleaded the Lord not to ask him that?
It's easy to call something like that strange, but I guess Peter said not to think it that when persecutions and attacks come. /shrugs
As Christians, our first criteria in seeking a companion is spiritual compatibility. But what comes afterward? As you gather your thoughts and consider the qualities the bible speaks favorably of. Where do you draw the line?
Some term this 'good enough' but I'm going a step further. Is your line on par with God's? Are you emphasizing the qualities He values or confusing yours with His?
Have you considered the possibility your must-haves may be meaningless? Are you willing to reconsider your perspective?
Question: How do you define 'enough' for your relationships (or future connections)?
Yours in His Service,
~Bella