I moved about 4 hours from home after my marriage on April 10th. I am having a bit of a difficult time adjusting. I had only ever lived in my hometown and I am really missing my friends and family. I love being with my husband, don't get me wrong, but I miss not being able to call up my sisters and go to lunch or go to dinner and a movie with my friends. (The good news is we are going back to visit this coming weekend )
My husband has lots of connections here because he has lived in this area for 25 years. His kids are here, his church is here, his friends are here, etc. I feel a little bit like I lost my life and am just trying to fit into his. I know that really we are building OUR life but at the moment it doesn't feel that way
If you moved away from home, how did you adjust? What did you do to make friends? How long before you felt like 'this' was home?
Sorry...don't mean to be a debbie-downer...just struggling a bit at the moment
My husband has lots of connections here because he has lived in this area for 25 years. His kids are here, his church is here, his friends are here, etc. I feel a little bit like I lost my life and am just trying to fit into his. I know that really we are building OUR life but at the moment it doesn't feel that way
If you moved away from home, how did you adjust? What did you do to make friends? How long before you felt like 'this' was home?
Sorry...don't mean to be a debbie-downer...just struggling a bit at the moment